45 Nashua, United States
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My self-summary
I haven't been on here for awhile and I have come to realize that my profile is out of date. Therefore,I guess it is time to revamp it a bit.
I am a divorced mom of 3 , a 23yr old son, and daughters ages 22 and 19. They have all left the nest to live on their own , the youngest is married to a wonderful young man who is in the military. WOW Where does the time go?

What I am looking for? Hmmm that is a tough one. However, what comes to mind is There are so many men who are like Pinocchio , I want something/ someone REAL. I would like someone FOR ME to talk to and share some time with, friends first and foremost, possible long term relationship. I am not into the serial dating thing.I would like to find that special someone who would and could be my best friend and partner in all that life has to offer.
I could be completely happy just spending some quiet time at home, talking or watching tv and cuddling and
Starring into each other eyes , although the occasional night out would also be wonderful

I honestly don't care for people who expect perfection 24/7. I dislike games and dishonesty so if you are only looking for some sort of "conquest",or just playing games then may I suggest you continue looking. If you have taken offense to what I have just said, then may I suggest you try OPTION ONE, OR, if that does not work, the back button of your browser likely does. ;)

I have been asked several times about my choice of name and what exactly I want so I thought I would post partial lyrics to a song that I like that will hopefully explain it... (Not to mention when the song first came out my children said it was about me)

Well,I ain't never been the Barbie doll type..
Some people look down on me, but
I don't give a rip
I'll stand bare footed in my own front yard..
I ain't no high class broad I'm just a product of my raising ,
hell yeah,
Victoria's Secret, well their stuff's real nice Oh, but I can buy the same damn thing on a Wal-Mart shelf half price....
Well, you might think I'm trashy, a little too hardcore
But in my neck of the woods I'm just the girl next door....

Gretchen Wilson : Redneck Woman

does it help at all??? LOL

I am laid-back, independent, and family oriented

I am not a girlie girl but I am not exactly a tomboy either. I guess you could say I i fit happily somewhere in the middle.

I can do most anything a man can do
I can hold my liquor with the best of you
Even take your money in a game of pool
Yeah, I'd kick your butt, if I wanted to
And I don't mind when people cuss in front of me
The truth is I don’t blush that much at anything
But I’ve still got this little girl inside of me
That likes to be treated like a queen
And I know I don't act much like a lady
But I still need to be somebody's baby
Yeah, you might find me makin' too much noise
But I'm more than just one of the boys

Gretchen Wilson: One Of The Boys
What I’m doing with my life
I have bachelors degree in Psychology.
I am making the best out of each day and taking things as they come!
I’m really good at
I believe I am really good at cooking for my family, listening, and several other things I choose not to list here.
I enjoy "being there" for people
And lately I have found that I am very good at multi tasking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would have to say that the first things people say they notice about are MY EYES. I have been told on numerous occasions that I have cat-like eyes.(??) I have also been told by close friends that I am "the go to person" whenever they need an ear or a shoulder. I tend to have the ability to view other peoples dilemmas with a logical, rational and unemotional mind set. I am also a very laid-back and go with the flow type of person, but once I have my mind and/or heart set on something, nothing will hold me back!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really do not have a favorite book,however I do enjoy reading.
The music I enjoy is country, but I also enjoy ACDC, Motley Crue,Poison , Green Day , 3 DoorsDown etc etc.

If I had to pick my favorite food it would have to be ITALIAN, but I also enjoy Mexican, Chinese and good old fashioned home cooking. Also we mustn't forget that I also love my coffee and Diet Coke, I am addicted to caffeine! UPDATE... recently I have choosen to cut back on my caffeine intake.
The six things I could never do without
The six things I could never do without are :
1. My 3 children ,they are my precious gifts ( although they do not live with me any longer)
4. food
5. The knowledge I have gained and the ability to gain more
6. my computer and internet.

It would also be difficult to live the rest of my life without finding that special someone who I know is out there somewhere.It is just a matter of time before we meet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to do with my life now that my children are all grown.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am usually at home watching T.V. but on occassion I enjoy going out and having some fun.... for example going to a bar/club and dancing all night.
My life is rather monotonous and unanimated. Obviously looking and willing to change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I told you it wouldn't be private any longer, but I am willing to share this...
I am quite shy, although sometimes it may not seem like it, I am told I am very good at hiding this fact LOL. I use humor to hide my shyness and nervousness.
You should message me if
...You think you are what I am looking for. Which is someone who is kind compassionate, tolerant, understanding, honest, monogamous,for friendship first/ possible Long term relationship.Or if you think I am what you are
looking for
ALSO Please be original when contacting me . Simplistic one liners may not receive replies! And above all Please know what you want, and what you are ready for making plans and canceling at virtually the last moment without an explaination does not bode well with me!