52Aurora, United States
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My self-summary
NOTE: I'm living in Portland Oregon until September 2017, will be in Aurora Colorado September 2017-June 2018, then will move back to Portland, and I don't like to "hook-up". I do, hoever, like to do things like drink beer and attend renaissance jam sessions, writers groups and hiking with friends. And if I find the right guy in Aurora while I'm there, that could change my trajectory.

I'm geeky, and I get along really well with people who are geeky as well. Renaissance re-enactors especially well. I'm fascinated by a wide variety of things, and will throw myself into something for about a year, then find something else to throw myself into. There are so many things to learn! A few constants throughout my life, however, include writing (poetry, fiction, occasionally memoir) and music (I'm working on getting back to decent skills on folk harp and viola.) I also always have a novel in my purse so I have something to read at will. On occasion it's something heavier, like self-help, or a classic.

If you're looking for a typical woman who loves shopping, buys a lot of shoes, has multiple purses and loves bling, I'm not a good match for you. I'm a minimalist, which means every item I own should have a truly needful purpose, and I work to have as few as possible. At least that's my goal; I have a ways to go yet. I'm also a frugalist, preferring inexpensive things, and finally a resourcer, very much preferring to find uses for things that would otherwise be thrown away, or find ways to use what can be found freely to do things one might buy another object for; for example, building furniture with bamboo instead of with PVC pipe.

If money and time were no object, I would love to to build a treehouse resort off grid homestead retreat education center for preppers and ecotourism with some alternative buildings and low-impact demo small-scale permaculture farming as well as zip lines and ropes course in the Willamette Valley. I would love to be part of an intentional community.

I value amusement to the point of seeming silly. I'm probably the most intelligent airhead you'll ever meet. I'm a devout Christian/Pagan/Zen Buddhist spiritual agnostic.

If your idea of polyamory is multiple monogamous relationships, I find monogamy preferable.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a gig driver for Uber and Lyft and studying for a masters degree in productivity analysis and training materials, so I can do technical writing for human resource departments.

After a 30-year battle with depression, I have reconfigured my attitude so that I can be happy EVERY day. My past has left me with a BBW body, and I really want to atl east get fit enough to go hiking in these gorgeous woods and mountains. I like to get out for camping and fishing.
I’m really good at
De-escalating tension, singing, climbing trees, seeing the bright side, getting back up after I get knocked down.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to laugh. I have green eyes. I love everyone and can't see any point in being judgmental. I have had a lot of interesting experiences in my life and can talk on a wide variety of subjects, even if I have no clue what I'm talking about so I'm asking questions instead... lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Mother Earth News magazine, spiritual stuff like "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" and "The Way of the Peaceful Warrior", then Dick Francis Mysteries, Dan Brown or character driven sci-fi/fantasy (Robert Jordan was AWESOMENESS INCARNATE.)
TV - Discovery channel primarily. Also entertaining ancient aliens stuff, animal documentaries, "Oddities".
Movies - Pirates of the Caribbean, Lord of the Rings, What the Bleep, anything funny, independent films.
Music - Celtic, 80s & 90s pop, spiritual & new age (Linda Webb-Khakaba, Melissa Phillippe, Michael Gott, Enya, Jean Michel Jarre, Andreas Vollenweider). And performing music is important to me; primarily Scottish and renaissance harp. I enjoy anachronism such as Metallica on the harp. And music, like sex, is more fun when you do it with someone else.
Foods - Thai, Italian, grilled anything.
Six things I could never do without
My computer, the intarwebz, a good book, COFFEE, trees, laughter.
Note to OKCupid; How about adding a Bucket List section?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Does "reibushi" really mean "spiritual warrior" in Japanese? And if love is always the answer is it an oxymoron, or is fierce love an acceptable answer? Also, how to achieve peace on earth, or at least make my little corner of the world just a little happier.
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving until 7. Those are great Uber hours! After that I've got a McMenamins passport and I'm not afraid to use it. Also always up for a Boneyard show, which is usually in Vancouver at Billy Blues. Jawbone Flats also good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to test laboratory monkeys.
You should message me if
You have any laboratory monkeys that need to be tested... lol

You see an avocado and think, "six point oh two times ten to the twenty-third."

You play the cello. Especially if you've been thinking about harp accompaniment.

You want to go fishing.

You do hobby taxidermy and want to teach someone.

You`re a mystic, and want to meet another.

You think you might be interested in me, a couple of acres by the shore of a nearby lake and/or off-grid living.

If you have a clear picture of yourself in our profile, and you don't say, "ask me" as an answer to a question. I'm the listening type, not the asking type. If you're keeping sex a secret or think you need to go to confessional, you probably shouldn't be doing it. In other words, if you act like it's your "dirty little secret", I'm not interested in you at all. I just can't see having a relationship with someone who doesn't have what I consider a mature attitude about being an adult.
The two of us