I'm a bit of a homebody. I do like going out and trying new things, I just like some re-centering time in between. Neither "introvert" nor "extrovert" describes me very accurately: I like being around people and get sad when I don't, but familiar ones in small groups are best.
Feminism and anti-racism are not optional. I don't need you to be actively involved with social change groups (I'm not), just give a shit about how what you say and do affects others. I wish this went without saying.
Last but not least: I'm nonbinary. My pronouns are they/them. If you're puzzled by this it's okay to ask me friendly questions about it. It's not okay to ignore it. (Casually getting my pronouns right is a great way to show that you read my profile!)
Realistically, getting distracted from homework by coding little side projects. (Same username on github.)
Trying to simultaneously find a post-graduation job and not think about jobs, which is tricky.
I'm bad at remembering things if I don't write them down, but good at remembering to write them down.
Suffice it to say that I'm pretty conspicuous.
I don't really make time to watch things on my own, but I'll watch your thing with you if it's pretty low-key. I prefer stories that charm me to ones that scare me. I also like getting warm fuzzies and being made to think.
Come to think of it, that's basically my taste in people, too.
Most of the music I like is lyrical and upbeat. If you noticed that describes pop, rap, rock, and bluegrass equally accurately: exactly. Strong basslines (or bass voices) make me melt. When I'm home alone I blast jazz standards and harmonize with Ella.
Oh yeah, and I'm unapologetically on the McElroy podcast bandwagon.
2. The sort of friend I can talk to without words.
3. The right amount of free time: not too little, not too much.
4. Something to doodle and take notes on.
5. Affectionate touch.
6. Comfortable clothes.