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My self-summary
I'm young at heart. I used to say 5 years old but I've matured a bit and I'm probably closer to 6 and a half. I love to play like I do with dogs--with all my heart. I love running and laughing and rolling around in the dirt, playing games that wild hearts in domesticated bodies can appreciate. I believe the more playful I become, the more serious I can be without shutting down.. I care deeply and sometimes that creates holes I trip over and even fall into if I'm not careful.

I love the ocean. I love being underwater and playing in the waves. Drowning terrifies me but I'm drawn to the sea, to the amazing world of life under there, and to the serenity of being caught in such a heavy and powerful solution.

I'm a dancer learning how to sing to the music of my heart. The world is loud but I'm learning how to carry my own tune. I might as well be tone deaf and I have a poor sense of rhythm so these are funny metaphors for me to use but they feel right and I'm learning!! :)

I want to build a house out of dirt and garbage, maybe old tires or shipping containers. I don't want to spend my life working a job I don't like paying for a fancy, leaky shoe box I won't have time or energy to enjoy with people I love but don't get to spend much time with. I want to have a home and share food and my life with people who are committed to honesty and openness. Wild, free, and compassionate folks. Sober vegan anarchists would be ideal.. but those are just labels that stem from my understanding of those values.
What I’m doing with my life
Reading, writing, cooking, diving, laughing, smiling, lifting heavy things over again, and missing home halfway around the world as I navigate my way through the crazy systems of modern civilization with more than a little helping of luck and privilege.
I’m really good at
Knitting, making big changes, cheering people up and sitting with their sadness when I can't
The first things people usually notice about me
I'll ask someone and get back to you :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i'm a bookworm and i'm falling in love with zines..

top 3s
fiction--Disgrace by JM Coetzee (i've read it 5 times so far), Fall on Your Knees by Anne Marie MacDonald, At Swim, Two Boys (best love story ever).

non-fiction--Always Looking Forward by Walter Bond, Rose: Love in Violent Times by Inga Muscio, Whipping Girl by Julia Serano

graphic novels--Maus, The Watchmen, The Walking Dead

movies--Wallace & Gromit: The Adventures of the Were-Rabbit, In Darkness, Moulin Rouge

shows--i don't watch TV but i love and hate South Park

music--metal, drum and bass, folk

food--bananas, spinach, chia seed
Six things I could never do without
knitting. hats. bikes. poetry. tattoos (i'm kind of attached to them.. haha). Silly jokes!! my favourite:
--What's brown and sticky???
--A stick!
i know, i know, it's sooooooooooooooo bad but i love that joke!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Too much, too little, my thoughts are always in the middle of playing my heart like a fiddle ever since I was a little.. thoughts are tricky. Some are sticky and others slip on by like sailboats on the ocean of my mind. Stillness is an illusion of distance and little waves make it tough to tell the strenght or swell of so much water moving. Moving on. Moved. That's what I do. Even as I wink and wave at you. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Unaware that it is Friday now that I'm unemployed and I don't party.. Why not a seasonal time frame? Winter nights I knit. The other 3 are up for grabs :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i once dropped 10 hits of acid.. that was too much acid.
You should message me if
you feel like it.
The two of us