63 Gresham, United States
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My self-summary
I am unable to sprinkle magical " fairy dust " on your forehead that might enthrall you to continue reading my hyperbole, but if you dare I promise to be authentic.
I realize that we all have baggage, I myself had a garage full at one time. With therapy I condensed it to a large wheelbarrow, and seeing the value in more improvement I further reduced it to neatly fit on my key-ring.

I would like to find a similar great gal, that is unencumbered and has lint for baggage. Also it wouldn't hurt my feelings if you too were also financially secure.

A Public Service announcement: Girls, DON'T include your smoking hot girlfriend in your primary photo. Many men, me/I pick the one on the left usually.
What I’m doing with my life
On the surface, it may appear that I'm only here to get my GREEN CARD. That's just not true, I'd also like to take home some of your American money. KIDDING, I like your food also.

A wise woman told me * A real woman can do it all by herself..... but a real man won't let her.*

I would like to say, that I'm single by choice. ( my ex-wife's choice)

For all of us singles out there, I always remember there are worse thing than being alone. Number one is being stuck with the wrong person.
I’m really good at
Repeating thoughtful Quotes: " Care enough to say I LOVE YOU when it needed to be said. "

" You care that you said THANK YOU way more often, than you said please. " ( That one still pulls at my heart strings )

Almost forgot..... I'm very good at opening your door.
The first things people usually notice about me
S M I L E ;) If you get within hugging distance, you may also find that I smell good.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My children are the book readers. I ask them how it ended. Movies: I love comedies, suspense, and romantic tear jerkers. Shows: I laugh every time that I watch " Curb your Enthusiasm "
Food: Everything, but enchiladas are near the top.
The six things I could never do without
The big guy looking over me. Then it makes no difference the order. Well maybe it does, Family. OK now it is coffee, hug-n-kisses, my eyes, smiles-n-laughter. I would say a tooth brush, but that's seven. I want to also squeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzze in 2nd chances.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the 67 yr old gal's who's profile reads : " I'm in my late 50's." After trading several messages, she confessed to being 67 yrs old. She explained that she felt 50-ish. In all fairness she could still pass for 66yrs old. Go! "WANDA" Go!

I guess that's about the same as the guy that tells you he's RICH, and can't afford dinner and a movie. You only get to choose one.
On a typical Friday night I am
I recently enjoyed coffee with an 84yr old grandma, and she shared her wisdom. She told me there is a ( 10 - 80 - 10 ) rule in dating, 10% are too pretty, rich, smart, fit. Then you see the opposite end, 10% are too homely, poor,dumb,fat. She said the trick is to fit into the 80%. This sounds kinda crude, but I believe that old gal knew what she was talking about.

I'm an 80%-er looking for the same....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Be PRESENT, make love, make tea, make mistakes, learn. Know your worth. Love fiercely, forgive quickly, let go of what doesn't make you happy. Grow. Make your bed, make someone else's bed. Have a smart mouth, and most of all. JUST BE YOU.....
You should message me if
You notice any CHEMISTRY, but PLEASE * N O * SMOKERS, and if drugs, or alcohol are a regular part of your daily life. I'm probably not the right guy for you.

My "QUOTE" of the week:

Don't look back,
you're not going that way.