49Vallejo, United States
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My self-summary
i'm happily involved with two partners including megan_suzanne so if you're looking for someone who's single or monogamous, thanks for visiting and i wish you much success!

i get to do what i love and have learned to live richly while not being rich. i've been rich and poor, well off and homeless, shy and a showman and here and there. i love travelling and keeping busy. i have a wide social network with a career that enables me to celebrate being alive at all volume levels. i usually think of exactly what i want to say en route somewhere and have forgotten it by the time i get the chance to write it down.

i'm a musician, motorcyclist, forever trying to get a regular exercise plan going, bicyclist, burner, actor, teacher, peanut gallery, wide-eyed, bashful, talkative, a night owl, worried about the mundane things, cynical, jaded, yet optimistic and have hope for the world.

I believe that connections are key, even for a casual encounter. I am also a firm believer that we are all equal regardless of gender. Conversely, I will insist on holding the door open for you.

I am alert, talkative, and easily distracted. Very easily.

I prefer to write in run on sentences because putting a period at the end of a sentence invites distraction and i may not finish saying what I wanted to in the first place. So a lot of them come out like the previous one.
What I’m doing with my life
working on music, teaching it, performing it, trying to understand better ways to get what i hear in my head to sound like it coming out of the speakers;

i'm not the best at describing myself so please fire away with curiousnesses.
I’m really good at
reading between the lines

believing what you say

seeing the other side of the coin

laughing during stressful times

diving in up to my neck in something

kissing cuddling smirking

looking evil until i open my mouth

quoting movie lines and catch phrases

comedic uh....timing

Hitting things with sticks

Pressing buttons and twisting knobs
The first things people usually notice about me
usually they hear me coming. then i've heard comments about my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Neil Gaiman & Terry Prachett: Good Omens; Christopher Moore: A Dirty Job; Inkheart

wouldn't ming picking up again: Ishmael and the Story of B by daniel quinn; Hyperion series; Tom Robbins; the princess bride; squee; Snowcrash by Neal Stephenson;

to dive into: The People's History of America; Lamb; The Historian;

movies: the 5th element; the emperor's new groove; walk hard; spinal tap (and most other christopher guest & co films like best in show, mighty wind, etc.); pan's labyrinth; tenacious D and the pick of destiny; formula 51; the occasional adventure romp like the italian job;

music: there's very little i don't like in music. i'm most often listening to tracks to prep my next mix of electroswing. I'm a late comer to dance music and am making up for most time. House, techno, deep, breaks, and recently glitch hop are usually going on in my head or coming out my speakers .

food: i'm a sucker for sushi (preferably responsibly/consciously offered) and thai food.

Thanks to bacon and realizing I need meat in my diet pretty much an omnivore again. Locally grown and organic is always preferable to processed. Still don't like onions and green peppers and beef though. So many delicious alternatives...
Six things I could never do without
good food (preferably organic, but you know how it goes with bacon and burritos)





I spend a lot of time thinking about
why we're here
drumbeats and grooves
what if...?
how much our judgment of others is a way of expecting them to live their lives according to our rules
quantum philosophy
On a typical Friday night I am
playing music or supporting my friends doing the same. or laundry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The more i like someone the more bashful I get until they give me really obvious (like iron skillet upside the head obvious) messages that my attraction would be welcome and is mutual.
You should message me if
you enjoy multiple topics in a single conversation and you find the exclamation "-ooh!!" an endearing segue

you understand and are comfortable with the fact that i am polyamorous. While i have a busy schedule I love how opportunities to interact present themselves as the universe sees fit. I have learned that a secondary relationship type fits my schedule and focus level much better than a primary one. while it might not mean everyday, having a good connection and compatibility is a priority. I'm learning how to do occasional (as opposed to casual).

You know what it means to be polychronic and can flow with that.
The two of us