43Los Alamitos, United States
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My self-summary
Creative Artist / Musician type here....And no, I'm not a flake. Lol... Nor do I need anyone to support me financially. I am looking for a mellow, sweet, and accepting female companion to have adventures with. Someone that I can take with me on road trips or just have fun with during the mundane times....even if we're just reading on the couch together on a rainy afternoon or shopping in the grocery store. The right person can make any situation fun.

While attractive looks are nice, I hope to find someone who has a lot of love in her heart and who will be a good friend to me. It's fairly easy to turn a friend into a lover, but it's not as easy turning a lover into a friend. Hence, I don't like things to go too fast. (Yes, I'm different from most guys).
What I’m doing with my life
I am an artist with my own business who also works as a solo musician, playing and singing classic rock cover songs. I enjoy the freedom and flexibility that I have with these jobs.

I have time and energy for a real relationship. I hope you do, as well.

I've been taking road trips, but it would be nice to have someone to go with me. When I am not traveling, I enjoy classic movies, music, board games, stormy weather, and good company.
I’m really good at
Listening and communicating.

Being a good friend.

Making my artwork (it's Halloween-related, so please like Halloween).

I have skill playing guitar, some piano, and singing.

I am a warm and supportive partner without being smothering.

I have integrity and I keep my word.

I enjoy giving massages. Been told I have "healing hands."

I believe in good communication and I don't play games.

I think I have a good sense of humor, but that is a matter of opinion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, as I've never met myself before. :). I suppose it would depend on what I'm doing at the time I am noticed. Some people say I remind them of Jack Black, but it's not anything I'm trying to do.

I hold doors for people and let them in my lane on the freeway, so hopefully they will notice that I am a courteous and polite person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Too many to list. I don't care what you read, as long as you read. I like literate people.

SHOWS: I enjoy classic t.v. sitcoms, dramas, and documentaries. I follow The Walking Dead, but actually don't watch a lot of the tube. I'd rather watch a good movie or read. However, I am pretty flexible and open to checking out shows that you like.

MUSIC: Give me classic rock (50s, 60s, 70s), some 80's & 90's, and some jazz, blues, classical, and world music.

FOOD: I am not a health nut, but I don't eat a lot of really naughty things, either. I enjoy many things with gluten and it doesn't affect me. I enjoy eating meat, as well. I am not into into spicy food or raw fish, but I will go to sushi with you if I can get something else. Steak and seafood are favorites. I don't like most fruit, so please don't surprise me with a fruitcake. But I do eat my veggies!
Six things I could never do without
Literature, Films, Music, Art, Good food, and Love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything and everything. Love, hate, mild dislike, indifference.... I mourn how divided everyone is along political lines and how negative and tiresome it has all become. Makes me want to become a hermit. If you are an angry, political teeth-gnasher, and/or a rioter, find someone else to do that with. I am seeking peaceful people. Thank you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying a nice dinner out and hopefully having a good conversation with someone. I also enjoy watching movies in my mini-theatre at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very private....and more people need to be.
You should message me if
You are a relatively happy person who is going to brighten my life with your kindness, wit, passion, and humor. (I only request that because that is what I have to offer you). You don't have to be happy all the time though. If you were, you wouldn't be human!
The two of us