45Philadelphia, United States
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My self-summary
If you can't tell by my photo's, I love to travel and it is my number one passion. I try to take a trip about once a month. I am working on retiring in five years, then I will travel non-stop.

I am easily entertained and so that has allowed me to have a lot of interesting hobbies. Currently all of my hobbies have become part time jobs. I have about six now and counting. I enjoy them because they allow me to experience new things and meet new people. I also have a full time professional job as a computer programmer so needless to say, I keep myself very busy.

I like to laugh and I have a wacky sense of humor at times. I can also be very low key and serious. Don't take everything I say so literal, I am sometimes just making a joke. I also tend to struggle in the gay community. I am out and proud but really have a problem with labels. That is probably what will turn me off from a person the quickest if they start trying to put me in a neat little package. I don't identify as masculine or feminine or any of those other popular descriptive words that the gay community likes to use. I am just me, and I like that.

It would be great to meet new friends and hopefully that special someone to go on this amazing journey with me. I am a passionate guy and like others who are also. I like adventure and trying new things. Road trips, camping, hiking, home improvement projects, and amusement parks are all right by me. I always say, I will either have a good time or I will have a great story so I hardly ever say no.

I hardly ever make the first move but can be aggressive when I think the time is right. I am an honest person and will usually tell you things about myself that most people keep to themselves. I know this shocks some people but it is who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to fit in and failing miserably. I tend to do my own thing and am not influenced by others easily. Right now I am focusing on retirement. Corporate America is killing my soul.
I’m really good at
Finding good travel deals and navigating a country I have never been to before. I am also a good conversationalist. I ask a lot of questions and am truly interested in learning about a person, but if the conversation becomes one sided then I will get bored and check out. I am really easy to talk to and a lot of people like to listen to my stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything that inspires me to do more, see more. Some examples are The Way, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, Wild, biographies, and travel shows. Music is the soundtrack of my life so music is important to me. I review restaurants just for the experience but I am not a foodie. I like to eat out but my tastes are quite bland, I must admit. I am from the Midwest and have the taste buds to prove it. Mexican food, pizza, and American are my favorites.
Six things I could never do without
I don't have many vices. My passport, a trip to look forward to, and music to listen to on the plane.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All of the places I want to travel to. I am a curious person and want to see and experience everything. I also think about how to fit more time in a day. I stay very busy but there are so many other things I want to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing is typical with me.
You should message me if
You're curious and want to know more. You can carry a conversation and not give one word answers to my questions. Also, if your profile only describes yourself as someone who "likes to have fun" or "works hard and plays hard" we probably won't get along. I think that describes everyone in the whole universe. Be more specific and be passionate about something, anything. One more thing, please no xenophobes!
The two of us