And yet still after all of this I still stand.
I figure life is what you make of it, so I try to live everyday being mindful of how far I have come and also remembering how far I have to go.
I want first and foremost, honesty out of a relationship. I think that without honesty couples do not have much hope of a long term relationship. Which is what I am looking for. Not a night, a week or a year. I am looking for someone to complete me for a lifetime.
I am 38 and have lived a great life so far, and I intend on making the next 38 plus years even better.
I am secure in myself, my life, my finances and the love of my 2 children that I spend all the time I can with. They live with their mother during the year but we are still very close and they spend every summer and holiday with me.
I am looking for someone real. Someone that can be themselves without the need to be over the top. Also If you are under the age of 28, please do not message me. I probably will not have much in common with you, nor your energy level.
Lastly, my ideal woman has to be open to trying new things and as comfortable relaxing at home as she is out on town.
I am comical, cute, and truthful
When it comes to my sense of humor its more of an obsecure reference type of humor laced with a bit of sarcasm and topped with an aura of wit.
Movies...Comedy and drama
Music...anything but hard or alternative rock (modern stuff)
foods...anything but mushrooms, sour cream or seafood
My pillow (its been broken in over so many years it just feels right)
I also spend sometime thinking how many other people are in same frame of mind as me, but don't admit it.
We are happy with ourselves but want someone to share the good times and the bad...someone to lend an ear or a shoulder when needed and wont complain constantly about every little thing.