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My self-summary
Trying to summarize one's self is like shaving: you have to look in the mirror, and everything is a backwards reflection. But here goes...

I am on a quest to find intimacy in all its forms -- emotional, physical, spiritual and intellectual.

I've been a graphic designer and I've run my own business since 1986. I think a lot about anything and everything; I have a BA in philosophy. I enjoy conversation, and I'll talk about anything (even politics). I'm extremely candid and not afraid to share my personality. I have a wry sense of humor, but I'm not above silliness. I seem to have a knack at getting away with saying the things that others only think -- it's a blessing and a curse.

I write songs and poetry, and sing constantly. I sing in the halls, at the market, on the sidewalk, at the mall -- I sing. I enjoy the arts in (almost) all forms.

I'm an amateur photographer.

I like to cook and eat out. I'm happy to go to the local dive or a 5-star restaurant. I'm comfortable dressed to the nines, or hanging out in jeans.

I play golf when I can. I'm handy with power tools and I'm not intimidated by a large project.

I like to take aimless roadtrips.

I care about other people's feelings. I'm thoughtful and considerate.
I loathe stupidity and greed, thoughtlessness and callousness. I look around me and wonder what has happened to the world I grew up in? When did the bar get set so low? I hold myself to very high standards. I do the best I possibly can ALL the time.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently freelancing and thinking about how to increase my business.

Growing wiser as I become more mature. Learning is the experience of connecting the dots. As one connects more and more, one is able to connect more and more exponentially (or is that logorythmically?). I'm seeking to connect as many dots as I can perceive.
I’m really good at
my job
seeing the forest for the trees
connecting the dots in 3-D
metaphors and analogies
figureing things out
making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
My gregarious nature and outgoing personality.

I'm told I have a cute butt -- I don't know, I can't see it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Frank Herbert, Isaac Asimov, Plato and Aristotle.

Directors: Hitchcock, Kubrick, Tarentino, Ken Burns, Disney and 100s of others.

Films: 2001 A Space Odyessy, Quadrophinia, and everything in between -- I don't care for modern horror films, zombies or slasher movies, vampires and werewolves, and the like. I do like a good musical.

Shows: Too many to list. All time favs-The Prisoner, Masterpiece Theater (PBS), Columbo. I watch all kinds of stuff, lately I'm enjoying Japanese anime. I love animation, be that old cartoons, Pixar movies, or hastily drawn flip books.

Music: Elivs Costello, Pete Townshend, Bob Marley, Paul Simon, The Magnetic Fields, Peter Gabriel, Warren Zevon, Bob Dylan, Beatles, CCR, Elton John, KD Lang, Nick Lowe, Monkees, Van Morrison, Pink Floyd, REM, Cat Stevens, Queen, Squeeze...all genres. Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz (not a big Metal fan).

Food: Yes, especially Italian--oh, and a good steak.
Six things I could never do without
my brothers and sister
my guitar, ukulele & a capo
my senses
the time to think and the will to do it
other humans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, the universe and everything
how I got here, how things work, and how can I make it better
On a typical Friday night I am
up late
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not afraid to cry.
You should message me if
You're interested/intrigued/curious/confused...or just want to say hello.
The two of us