45Atlanta, United States
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My self-summary
I was born and raised here in the Atlanta area. I consider myself intelligent, articulate, well mannered, a great conversationalist, a valued friend, and a man who loves completely and unconditionally with the right person.

I was raised with a strong belief system that a good man is chilvalrous and above all else is always respectful and tender. Yes, I open doors, I never walk ahead, love to hold hands and cuddle, and I most often put the needs of the person I care about ahead of my own. I've never been a cheater or a beater and nothing could ever change that. Having been raised in the South I have an affinity for G.R.I.T.S. I'm not referring to the food. If your one you know the acronym. There is a charm, set of values, ethos, and good common sense that G.R.I.T.S have.

Avoidance of conflict is of the upmost importance to me. True affection and respect is comprised of being able to communicate effectively to a reasonable compromise. It takes two people working together to make two trails one road. I deal with conflict through my work. I don't want it at home. Jealousy is the bain of any relationship. I am fully trusting unless there is reason not to be. I'm neither possessive or obsessive and would never keep you from friends, family, or other obligations. At the same time I should be at the top of your daily bucket list whenever possible.

I'm an extrovert and can approach and talk with anyone. I can find common ground with most anyone. To me there are no strangers, just friends you haven't met yet. I can be quite sarcastic and the clown in the room if not properly sedated (JK!). I'll give the shirt off my back to help someone in need even if it means I go without .

I believe that the content of our character defines us. It's not where we have been but rather who we are and where we want to go. A kind word and a good deed can move mountains. I learned a long time ago that you catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar.

I hope to meet someONE who becomes my best friend and confidant who mutually falls in love with me as much as I do with them. I'm an open book and I express that. I have to have the same reciprocated. I want to meet someone who sweeps me off my feet and takes my breath away as much as I do them.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been a professional law enforcement Officer for almost twenty years. I am a special operations Officer for a large Atlanta area police agency and work primarily as a hit and run investigator.
I’m really good at
Calmly articulating my position and avoiding conflict

Bantering, joking at lifes hurdles, and picking up after myself.

Driving without getting lost.

Its only fair to say what I'm not accomplished at: cooking and DIY stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I suppose my......You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading but don't really have a preference. I love a great novel. I read the Girl With The Dragon Tattoo trilogy most recently.
I am a guy from the south so I lOVE college football. It's a religious experience here. My taste in music is similar to most. I like just about everything. My only exceptions are rap, some R&B and Soul, and heavy metal.
Six things I could never do without
True love
Faithful devotion

I know these seem "heavy" but this is a dating sight. These things are what relationships are about. Sure, I have lots of things I would rather not be without. In the end money and material things don't sustain a happy fulfilled life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whats next!
On a typical Friday night I am
There isn't any such thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is a bit of a oxymoron isn't it?
You should message me if
You are looking for an emotionally gently soul to share life experience with.
You value good communication.
You are a good listener.
You want to genuinly meet a great guy
You are romantic or at least want romance
You want a best friend and confidant
The two of us