40 Sydney, Australia
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My self-summary
I used to call myself a bear. Specially, a ginger bear. But while I may be overweight, gay and hairy, I don't believe I am a member of the 'bear community' any longer.

While my anxiety often keeps me from doing things, when I am in control I love to go dancing, traveling, walking, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
My work life is sorted. I like what I do and I believe I do it well. But with work being a cake-walk, the focus of what I am wanting to improve has shifted towards people. Especially people to share things with.
I’m really good at
My job
Roasting a chicken
Playing 'good cop/bad cop'
Fun in bed, or wherever ;-)
Planning travel and events
Watching Netflix
The first things people usually notice about me
My red hair. Yes, it's natural. Yes, it's the same all over.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I 'read' more audiobooks lately. But just as with the printed page, I may have a few that I would happily read again and again, the real joy is constant discovery of new favourites. Movies and television don't give me a constant stream of greats, like books do. I am usually found going back to 'old favourites', comedy, animation and weird stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Something to read
People to make me smile and laugh
Lemon or lime juice for my water
The Archers on BBC Radio 4
Planning my next adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I can't change
On a typical Friday night I am
Exhausted from the week. Will eat, talk and play until I have to sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There are probably a few, but the best one for me to disclose is my anxiety. It doesn't always make sense, but at times it does control me.
You should message me if
You have any desire to do so.