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My self-summary
Some things to look forward to should we ever get to know each other past the internet:

I always intentionally miss my turn on round-abouts, just so I can go all the way around.
I accelerate over humps and raised tracks in the road.
I splash every puddle of water I see collected on the side of the road.
I do doughnuts, race other cars, and refuse to use my breaks in tight corners...

I WILL sing to you, at you, and around you. Dancing sometimes joins the fun.
And I don't care if we're romantic or not, I'm buying you random flowers.
I'll run around my car to open your doors, not because my daddy raised me to think women are less capable, but because my daddy raised me to be kind to everyone.
If I think you're having a bad day, I WILL try to make you laugh and if I fail at that, I will offer my shoulder.
I don't shake hands...if you know me, we're hugging. If you don't know me, we're hugging.
Drop $300 on a night with a friend, even if we're not dating? Sure, as long as we have fun.
Random roadtrips to a hidden waterfall or beach or other excitement happen often, and I won't tell you where we're going until we're there.
What I’m doing with my life
Well, I just published my first novel, Directive Destiny, which is available at any major book retailer or online (shameless plug?). And... I just moved to Auburn, Alabama to turn my degree in Microbial Biochemistry into my Doctorate in Pediatric Medicine. I've always dreamt of working as a doctor without borders and continuing on to work with St Jude and it's time to reinvigorate that dream! When I'm not in school, at the gym, or on some body of water/moutainside, I work as a restaurant personality/Bartender/Trainer and I write.
I’m really good at
Spontaneous roadtrips.
I'm talking 2 am screw this rain I'm heading to the beach to watch the sunrise then driving back for work by 4, kind of roadtrips.
You know, the hey, I think I'd be fun to drive to Tuscaloosa wothout tickets to try and get into the LSU v. Bama football game because I happen to have a Saturday off, kind of roadtrips. (Spoiler alert, I got in... 40 yard line and 15th row... yes, it was awesome.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm loud, outgoing, and have really curly hair that is often very windswept.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Don't really have any favorites in any one area. I spend most of my time outdoors so typical media options are often neglected in lieu of more exciting and tangible activities...

Radiohead, Weezer, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Bob Marley, System of a down, Greenday, Pink Floyd...

A knights tale, V for Vendetta, Goonies, The Matrix...

House, Firefly, Psych, How I met your mother...

Directive Destiny...

The six things I could never do without
Good Company
Good Sleep
Good Food
Good Sex
dihydrogen monoxide

It says 6, but, I'm a rebel...
My motorcycle
My Hemi
Disney flicks
A gym!
Coffee, and for that matter, tea
New tattoos
The beach
Actually, any body of water
Long boards, paddle boards, snow boards, any boards...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've been pretty blessed in Life. I've proudly worked as a business owner and non profit chairman, successfully pursued a dream of becoming a writer and I've had an opportunity to travel the world and experience many interesting cultures and foods and religions. I've explored the caverns of active volcanoes, swung off cliffs on tropical jungle vines, raided castles, shared memories with elder tribesmen, and danced in massive pow wows. Hah, I lose every game of "Never have I ever"... and I'm an adventure and adrenaline junky through and through. If there's an opportunity to jump off of it, into it, over it, or through it, I'm usually game. I accept any challenge which involves a board I can strap to my feet or a motor I can force to push me to the limits of reality! And if you show me a body of water, I won't hesitate to jump in!
I love animals, roadtrips, and freedom. 'Cause, Merica! Lol.
But there's still so much more to see and explore and I'm still working at completing my greatest passions and dreams. I want to see and experience as much of this world as I can. I want to live freely with no regrets. I want to know when I die that I have lived a life of humility and passion. I want to give of myself and my time for the betterment of others. I want push myself to be the best person I can be.
And I want to share these adventures with someone who appreciates the frailty of life and and the uncertainty of time.
This is what I think about. But, being a romantic in the south circa 2020 seems to be proving quite challenging... I seem to be an anachronism; out of my time or place.
Are you only a fabrication of my psyche? Are you out there somewhere? Does such a woman exist?
On a typical Friday night I am
Every Friday I'm at work until close and then I drive to Dothan to play poker with friends and shoot the $hit. Every Tuesday and Thursday I'm out adventuring on a lake, river, etc or climbing some mountainside. I run three days a week, weight train 4 days a week and practice yoga 7 days a week. And soon I'll be a volunteering a few days a week. I fill my days with what I find important.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was hitting it off with a girl on OKCupid when the topic of sex inevitably came up. But I was cool, she brought it up and I'm an open person, so I went with it. But in my ignorance of fetish lore, when she said she was "kinky but not into crazy things like golden showers", I was thinking, "I love having sex in the shower!"... And I figured, that makes sense; Gold is valuable and awesome so of course shower sex would be called a golden shower. So, again, playing it cool, I began using my new vocabulary in stead of looking it up first. I told her how much I loved "golden showers" and would do it everyday, if I could. I talked about how fun it is for is to both be soaked and in the moment... yeah, she deleted her profile. I guess I was the last straw for her. So I've since urban dictionaried it and, to the girl for whom I destroyed faith in men, I'm sorry and I absolutely DO NOT enjoy, nor would I consider a golden shower...
You should message me if
I know absolutely nobody in the area! So if we have anything in common and you can recommend any fun/exciting/adventurous/interesting/relaxing/must-do activities for a recently single author making a new start in life, please let me know!

Besides, is there any real reason not to? Men receive an average of 1 message for every 100 that women recieve (And a shocking 1 response for every 25 we send!!!). Whether you're looking for an interesting conversation, a fun adventure, a friend or someone to potentially date, I'm going to respond to all 20 of the unsolicited messages I receive this year.

On a side note, I'm not at all picky about the friends I make; the more eclectic, the better.
That said, I'm exceptionally picky about the women I will date. I've now spent my adult life dating Women who didn't share my sense of fun and it's always ended poorly.
So, being completely honest and open, we can date if:
Your soul is more beautiful than your countenance.
I want stimulating conversations that last through the night.
I need spontaneity.
I need someone who can:
Cuddle on the couch in sweats and no bra watching Disney Flicks on Monday.
Rock pearls, a floral dress, and heels for some midnight desserts on Tuesday.
Splash down a river/on a lake/through rappids/under a waterfall on Wednesday.
Pull on your boots and jeans and t-shirt and come horseback riding/mudding/4 wheeling with me on Thursday.
Hop in the car for a random roadtrip with nothing but coffee and each other on Friday.
Jam out at a live show/theatre/music on Saturday.
And, if I'm lucky, take me to your church and/or a Park on Sunday (and watch the walking Dead on Sunday night, of course)