32 Auburn, United States
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My self-summary
Perhaps I'm in the minority but I didn't join OK Cupid for casual sex. Hey, no judgments if thats your thing but, I'm just looking for something a bit more meaningful. I'm looking for someone who's able to reciprocate my lifestyle and add a bit of her own spice; someone who's drama free, will go to the gym with me, adventure without warning, let me spoil her, chill on the couch, isn't afraid of intelligent conversation AND has her own thoughts and opinions. That's basically who I am. I like to laugh a lot, be outside, adventure, and not much bothers me. I spend so much time filling my days with the things I think are important that I honestly never go out "looking" for people to befriend or date. So, cue OK Cupid to help with the heavy lifting. Enjoy!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm back in school (again...degrees number 4 and 5 for the win?) to accomplish my dream of becoming a Pediatric Oncologist. I work full time, sing A Cappella, Play Division A Rugby for the University of Auburn (Don't worry, I won't blame all of the bruises on you when the cops ask... I'll just tell them I fell down the stairs, like we practiced ;) and I travel on my "days off". Whether I'm at a concert or show, on the water, at the beach or cruising on my motorcycle, I stay as chill as possible, whenever possible. Between 19 hours of class, 40 hours of work, 7 hours of Rugby, 4 hours of A Cappella practice, and 7 1/2 hours of time in the gym, I simply have no time or energy for the chaos that follows drama.
I’m really good at
I spel good and I got gud gramer.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair if I've been riding the bike.
My tattoos if you're observant (most are hidden and only 5 are visible at any given time.
I tend to "over dress", so sometimes I stand out in a crowd. Psh, men these days...
And, how do I say this... I'm loud. I don't any of the attention and I promise I'd rather not have the spotlight but, I'm just that excitable. And, I'm always singing. It's just for me (and maybe you?) But people hear and people comment. Sorry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Being completely honest, I haven't owned a TV in nearly 5 years and I haven't subscribed to cable/satellite in almost 15 years. I love movies and documentaries and a few shows so every blue moon I'll Netflix on my phone. And I write. That's about it.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. My mind never shuts off and I get very little sleep. Even when I'm meditating or doing Yoga, my mind is racing. True story.
On a typical Friday night I am
Every Friday I'm at work until close and then I drive to Dothan to play poker with friends and shoot the $hit. Every Tuesday Wednesday an Thursday I'm at practice. I meet with my A cappella group on Sunday, run 5 days a week, weight train 4 days a week and practice yoga 7 days a week. I fill my days with what I find important.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was hitting it off with a girl on OKCupid when the topic of sex inevitably came up. But I was cool, she brought it up and I'm an open person, so I went with it. But in my ignorance of fetish lore, when she said she was "kinky but not into crazy things like golden showers", I was thinking, "I love having sex in the shower!"... And I figured, that makes sense; Gold is valuable and awesome so of course shower sex would be called a golden shower. So, again, playing it cool, I began using my new vocabulary in stead of looking it up first. I told her how much I loved "golden showers" and would do it everyday, if I could. I talked about how fun it is for is to both be soaked and in the moment... yeah, she deleted her profile. I guess I was the last straw for her. So I've since urban dictionaried it and, to the girl for whom I destroyed faith in men, I'm sorry and I absolutely DO NOT enjoy, nor would I consider a golden shower...
You should message me if
Your soul is more beautiful than your countenance.
You're capable of holding a conversation which leads into the wee hours of the night.
You appreciate spontaneity.
You can:
Cuddle on the couch in sweats and no bra watching Disney Flicks on Monday.
Rock pearls, a floral dress, and heels for some midnight desserts on Tuesday.
Splash down a river/on a lake/through rappids/under a waterfall on Wednesday.
Pull on your boots and jeans and t-shirt and come horseback riding/mudding/4 wheeling with me on Thursday.
Hop in the car for a random roadtrip with nothing but coffee and each other on Friday.
Jam out at a live show/theatre/music on Saturday.
And, if I'm lucky, take me to your church and/or a Park on Sunday (and watch the walking Dead on Sunday night, of course)