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My self-summary
i am a true definition of passion. i seek adventure and fulfillment to my life. i have a good heart but normally play by my own set of rules. it is more fun than listening to what society tells us we have to do to be successful. i enjoy listening to people to hear their viewpoints and passions.

I am ambitious, creative, and smart

ok... i felt i needed to add this... passion requires passion, meaning please have something in your life that you are striving for, making you live, breathe, get breathless over. AND NO this does not mean American Idol, Dancing with the Stars or Mojitos. Do you know how sexy it is to be ABOUT something... that is why we watch these stupid shows... we are watching people go after something BUT why are we watching it and not turning it off and doing it ourselves?

ANOTHER GREAT QUOTE and if you get this and what I mean about it, then maybe I found a soul mate.

"Look man, you can listen to Jimi but you can't hear him. There's a difference man. Just because you're listening to him doesn't mean you're hearing him. "
What I’m doing with my life
i am a real estate finance person but i am seeking to be self-employed. i am also a part time screenwriter. i am also trying to put it all together now. i have a very unorthodox past... not mainstream at all... i have succeeded on many levels but now trying to tell the story to an audience who is willing to stay to the end of the movie! ;)
I’m really good at
i will say what i am NOT good at.... writing captivating messages on OKC that win over the dream date that I am honestly looking for. why has this become so hard?
The first things people usually notice about me
my height! my eyebrows (Weird i know) my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
food = indian, turkish, greek, south american
music = classic rock, hip hop
movies = recently: the secret in their eyes, moon, the proposition, MUD
Six things I could never do without
kick boxing, film, my car, ... the next three have to be discussed... boring if you know everything from reading a profile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
LIFE? I have changed this section to show that I am taking this part of my life more serious now. I would like to meet someone who is a great match. I would like to say good bye to okcupid and stupid overly drunken tuesday nights (which should happen on occasion only!) I read a lot of profiles and noticed a lot of scorned people and people who are always blaming others for their match issues. we cannot do that or else we will always be alone. we need to look at ourselves and how we are culpable for our situations because that is all we can control.

i want a partner who can communicate and get who i am because i will be there for you and get you. i hope someone reads this section and really understands there are some good ones on here and we find each other!

culture... i went recently through a journey and i think cultural values has been missing in most of my relationships in the past. i think this is very important but it is not a zero sum game.
On a typical Friday night I am
likely resting after the long week so i am fresh for the weekend. but there can be exceptions!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i can tear up during a really good movie
You should message me if
you should message me... i have gone enough bad dates from online to hear the stories from both angles. take a chance.

also if you can handle someone who has an unorthodox past!

BONUS: if you can tell me the slightest thing about Finnish culture!!!
The two of us