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My self-summary
[updated February 2017 -- I am seriously looking for someone to travel with. I hate to pay the "single occupant" extra fee. My travel partner would have to be comfortable with nudity, because a hotel room is just too small to try to maintain modesty. I have previously traveled in Germany, Austria, Hungary and the UK. It would be fun to visit Scandinavia and I'd like to spend more time in Scotland (for the Tattoo maybe, or Edinburgh Fringe) and Ireland (both Republic and Norn Iron). New Zealand is also on the bucket list; maybe a return to Australia to see something outside of Sydney. This travel partnership may or may not include intimacy and sex, but it is not essential.]

I am financially secure, educated, articulate, eclectic, inquisitive, sane, fit, and healthy. I try to live my life without drama, angst or jealousy. Feeling at peace in my own skin is a wonderful gift. I focus on being the kind of person I want to hang out and be lovers with. If someone attracted to that shows up, great! And if they don't, I still have a wonderful relationship with a person I like ... me!

I practice ethical non-monogamy and for the last 8 years have been in a committed, long term and quite wonderful relationship with my very significant other michael5120

Interests I would hope you might share with me are: music, theater, dining, gardening, hiking, photography, reading, quilting, kayaking, RVing, hot tubbing and social nudity. While my SO and I live in the San Francisco Bay area most of the time, we also have a small home in Palm Springs where we love to get away and enjoy the desert, the mountains, wildflowers, and Palm Springs itself. Both homes are 420 friendly.

My life is happy, full and busy; but my schedule is flexible and we both make time for special friends in our lives, together and separately.

Ideally you live close to San Jose (or to Palm Springs), have a flexible schedule, enjoy occasional travel, and are comfortable with yourself, your body, and your sexuality.

Life is too short for drama. If your knickers get in a twist if emails, phone calls and texts are not answered immediately, you would not be happy in my life. Are you socially, psychologically and financially secure? I am not looking for a Sugar Daddy; neither do I want to support you.

Would you be comfortable in a relationship where you would not be my one and only? I am a strong woman and a meeting of equals is what I am looking for.

If any of the above resonates with you, please message me. I would love to correspond with you, talk with you, meet with you, share with you.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying retirement, crafting (weaver, potter, quilter), my lovely new-to-me RV; writing a blog in lieu of expensive psychotherapy:
I’m really good at
Looking at things from both sides.
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile? Red hair? You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In order: The Ethical Slut, RED, the current show at TheatreWorks, Chris Smither, whatever someone else cooks for me.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order: love, intimacy, nude beaches, my soulmate, red wine, the desert
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where do I fit in and how can I help
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking dinner with my sweetie and getting ready to go on a date with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My partner (see above) and I are a package deal. That does NOT mean that you have to be in an intimate physical relationship with him in order to be in an intimate physical relationship with me. It DOES mean that you would be in SOME sort of relationship with him if you are in ANY sort of relationship with me. Because we are a package deal. If this confuses you, or if it is bothersome to you, write to me. We'll talk.
You should message me if
You are interested in polyamory or in polyamorous relationships. Please note: I am not interested in just having "multiple sexual partners". Also, I am not interested in replacing my partner. I am interested in engaging with other polyamorous people, with the primary intent to expand my circle of friends first; expanding my circle of lovers is very much secondary.

***Please understand that women get hit on a lot here and you will NOT get a response if you have no photo and an empty profile. If you were born after I graduated High School (1963), save us both some time and write to ladies closer to your own age. I will not be responding to you.***
The two of us