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My self-summary
Time for a revision: Still abundantly figured, still have the tattoos (of course). Divorced 8 years now, and it's time to see who's out there, wherever there is.

My job as communications director in a family law office allows me to be the natural-born caregiver that I am. I've listened, comiserated, and empathized with lots of people who are going thru' something they never expected to happen. So, yeah, that's my professional thing.

My creative things are crocheting, learning the ukulele, singing, writing, embroidery. I'd have a garden if I had some dirt. I write, too, working on a true-life story. My true life, actually. It's weird, putting my experiences out there.

One cat. Three children, all grown, one at home. Three grandchildren who are THE BEST.

Who am I looking for? You. (Good answer!) Btw, I can't see when you "like" me, so just send me a message saying you did.
What I’m doing with my life
Things, including learning the ukulele.
I’m really good at
making coffee.
fixing a big pot of black bean soup.
crocheting a baby sweater.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Anne Rice, James Patterson, John Grisham, JR Ward. Neil Gaiman, David Sedaris, Steig Larsson, Greg Iles, Kurt Vonnegut. I have FINALLY gotten around to discovering Jack Kerouac and I totally dig On The Road, man. Vladimir Nabokov. Jacqueline Susann, Valley of the Dolls. I saw the movie version and it irritated me, how they put parts of the book and people together that had no connection. Totally changed the ending. Aargh. Aaaand, I finally read Fifty Shades of Grey, which I can discuss from a couple different viewpoints.

Movies: Saving Private Ryan, Kelly's Heroes, Caligula, Labyrinth, Wizard of Oz, Dark City, Car Wash, Billy Jack, The Princess Bride, The Secretary. Last Tango in Paris, Lolita, The Artist, A Clockwork Orange. 200 Motels.

What's on my iPod, you ask? The Beatles, The Who, Santana, Thievery Corporation, Ahmad Jamal, Steely Dan, Porcupine Tree, Joe Satriani, Curtis Mayfield, Heatwave, Led Zeppelin. Amy Winehouse, may she rest in peace. Broken Bells, Porcupine Tree. Lemon Jelly. Yes. Sam the Sham and the Pharaohs. Ray Stevens. Andy Williams.
UPDATE: I've never seen Caligula. No idea why I said that.
Six things I could never do without
my iPod, crochet thread and hooks, my family, my cat, snuggles, my laptop, and my ukulele.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why does OKC suggest people with less match and more enemy percentages?? And married people!
Also, there needs to be a grammar device in between a period and an exclamation point.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing embroidery, crocheting or playing my uke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a sub. If you don't know what that is, move on.
You should message me if
you feel like it.
The two of us