51Ypsilanti, United States
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My self-summary
Trying to sort myself out after some relationships that included far too much drama. I'm usually an easy-going guy who likes to laugh, and has a slightly silly side. I care about the world I live in and the people I come in contact with, and like to look at the happier side of things, or find it if it's being stubborn showing itself. I love big when I do love....unfortunately, people have taken that for granted.

I'm a sensible hedonist.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying as much as this life has to offer me, along with the mysteries, subtleties, and intensities. Laughing. Trying to occasionally clean my house.
I’m really good at
(clearly not writing these profiles!)

Listening? caring? Looking at the big picture?
The first things people usually notice about me
how laid back I am, my hands, my smile, my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like sci-fi (cyberpunk usually), and moderately historical suspense (a la Davinci Code). I'll watch just about any movie, but am prone to comedies and action flicks. I love music, and listen to all kinds of different tunes, including classic rock, mellow indie acoustic, rockabilly, chants, drumming, etc. Food? Favs include Thai, Korean, Indian, sushi, pizza, steak, BBQ. Dessert? Almost always! Life's too short!
Six things I could never do without
nature, chihuahuas, video games, love, laughter, geocaching (not necessarily in that order!)

Ok, why only six? (See hedonist comment above):
Let's also include social justice, cartoons, joy, diet caffeinated soda, art, knick knacks, affection, friends, awe of both my couch and the cosmos, music, and ellipses....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
well... I've been told I spend a lot of time daydreaming, but it's not usually about just one thing....

What's important in life...what is enriching ... what the next or future adventure should be
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out to dine or see a movie with friends, or sitting home watching TV with the dogs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Here are some easy ones:

I'm a big sensitive teddy bear (don't tell anyone)...

I'm into leather and kink.

If I know you well enough, I'll tell you anything. Let's just say I have lots of private things I could tell... =) but I'm pretty much an open book if you want to know about me.
You should message me if
You're remotely curious, and ultimately interested in pursuing something long-term, but acknowledge that it takes time and compatibility to build that. Take a chance!


If you're looking for someone to hang out with as a friend, who is low key, but also gets the deep stuff. I'm up for a movie, dining out, etc.


Some delightful combination of the above.
The two of us