rufus1969
47 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Looking for that special someone. A little clichéd I admit but true.

I have great friends whom I cherish. I love living in London where I can just go up the road to the V&A, or jump on my bike for a cycle round Battersea park. I love a movie, be it at the NFT for highbrow or the local for something trashy. Go to gigs when I can, have a couple coming up soon, one is a guilty pleasure that I will tell you about if we chat. Read quite a bit, the guardian and a broad range of books. A lovely family, a five month old neice who is just delightful.

I am a genuine guy, little in the way of emotional baggage, just hand luggage. I am a little romantic, for which I won't apologise.

One is the lonliest number. Hope to speak to you soon. X
What I’m doing with my life
Ooh, that's a hard one. Living my life causing as little pain to others as I can, while hopefully bringing a little joy.
I’m really good at
Being a pal. I am there when needed, I text you back ASAP, will carry a heavy load be it emotionally or physically for you, give great hugs and back rubs, have great taste in music and film, will notice when you have done something new to your hair, know when to listen and just shut up, don't judge, can make a cat laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
is how well he pulls off being a balding man.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Diary of a Nobody, I Know Where I'm Going, Talking Heads, Papillon(book), Magnolia, Arrested Development, Chet Baker, Morrissey, The Big Blue, Kenneth Williams Diaries, the photos of Terry O'Neil, the paintings of Gauguin.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, hugs, family, hats, humour, blood.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to start my second book, gonna skip the first one, only get a big advance with a follow up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Amongst friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I loved my blackberry.
You should message me if
... You would consider a first date entails a nice bar with inspiring chat that may lead to a little spark of attraction. I am not beyond using bribery, i will give you a pack of smarties too but can I have the orange ones?
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