run_widdershins
42 Missoula, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an army of one. I'm over education and under qualified for most jobs. I'm a vary passionate person but it's well tempered. I laugh at everything or at the least try.
What I’m doing with my life
i have a BA in computer science and physics. My intention was to go into automation, but after six months in the basement, doing IT, I decided to become a pilot. I have worked about seven years as a flight instructor but it wasn't enough to pay the bills. So I Tried to change it up and I got disgusted with the airlines so I tried cropdusting and had a bad season. I ended up working as a welder to make ends meet. then gave it up for love and followed my wife back to Montana. This winter I worked with ski patrol. This summer was spent fixing a fixer-upper. But Im doing ok.
I’m really good at
keeping things real. Although understating is also a passion. I think it's something that both pilots and nurses have in common. Give it to me straightforward and honest so I can deal with this situation. Artistry although appreciated doesn't help. I have been this way before I became a pilot. So I can't blame the job. That being said someone who can give it to me straightforward honest and diplomatically really turns me on and something I strive to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh at my own jokes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
let's do this by lyric or quote.

"You came in that thing? You're braver than I thought."
"is that The logical thing to do? No it is the human thing to do"
"my brains your bronze and his steel again 60 man and you think a little head jiggles going to make me happy"
"Where did he learn to negotiate like that"
"What we lack in intelligence we make up for in good intentions"
"Because you're the best of what's left"
"I like the Austrian way better"

"I was waiting on a moment but that moment never came. All the million other moments just simply past away. "
"Forsaking love we seek the signs that are forever held behind the static on the radio"
"Than your nipples get hard and you stand start dancing a whole Nother kind away"
"Try and disappear but there is only one way out of here"
"It's the simple things that make you smile"
"Some people claim that there's a woman to blame. But I know it's my own dam falt."
"And I fear I have nothing to give."
The six things I could never do without
plumbing. now don't get me wrong I like to camp too but after the first night I start thinking of how I could make some sort of running hot water happen. that and how to make primitive tools and start fires is what makes camping fun.

skin. not only would we be a mess without it but I love skin. soft smooth healthy skin over softly defined curves. I'm a bit of a hairy dude so the first think you will grab will most likely be covered with hair and hard. but lady's are an absolutely delightful to touch partly because of skin.

Emotional intimacy and affection. We are such Funny monkeys.

feedback. no really, go make out with a bag of rice or try and debate with a brick. ask a tree for dating advice. look to a chair for a loving embrace. send resumes... Be a married guy on Okc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human condition. We are highly complex social monkeys. We should be trying to make a utopia....

The question of "freedom from or freedom to". A friend said that they like being in a monogamous marriage because their partner can't just leave them and they found that very reassuring. I said I liked being in an open marriage because I would rather know my partner is here by Choice.

sustainable living. i have learned that farming is hard and vary necessary. Fossil fuels should stay buried but I don't have a solution yet so I can't complain.

automation. automation is the key to doing a lot of work without doing a lot of work.... but it takes a lot of work to get the automation. someday I will be able to be creative and lazy at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
find some good food. hang out with loved ones. maybe a walk and soak in the hot tub. it's pretty low-key around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My wife is bi. We both want another female partner or at least a girlfriend. And I'm excited about the possibilities. I could use a lot more intimate attention. I think she could do with less. There is definitely an imbalance in are physical needs. When things are stressful she wants to talk and do art. I want to cuddle.
You should message me if
I don't think we will live in missoula long term. I was thinking of South America but I have a European passport. I'd like to say that I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm not trying to sell you on "happily ever after" or "the right way" I can offer you home, love, support, affection. If you feel like this is something that is worth a try... But the game of life is a team sport.
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