run_widdershins
42 Missoula, United States
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My self-summary
I've spent a long time as an army of one. I'm over education and under qualified for most jobs. A true jack of all trades and master of none. I'm a vary passionate person but it's well tempered. I laugh at everything or atleast or at least try. I like to explore, but it's not in my nature to be reckless or careless. more recently I've found that I'm relationship oriented and that in the end it doesn't mean much if you can't share it.
What I’m doing with my life
i have a BA in computer science and physics. My intention was to go into automation, but after three months in the basement, doing IT, I decided to become a pilot. I have worked about six years as a flight instructor then gave it up for love. i have learned that farming is hard. But someday I'd like to own a small farm, more for the idea of sustainability and...(insert word that means comprehension and owning ones actions) then profit. like, I feel that if you eat meat you should hunt, it is part of the same thing. more recently I worked as a welder. then quit to start my own business but that didn't fly so I spent last summer flying airplanes and building a deck. This winter I worked with ski patrol. not sure what's next. I might fly this summer might weld. Other then that I'll be working on the houses. I think I'm like Han Solo. I have a Princess Leah. I'm looking for Chewbacca.
I’m really good at
keeping things real.
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh at my own jokes... And I laugh at a good joke a lot longer then everyone else. Things that are pleasurable are worth savoring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have documented proof that I'm one of the worst spellers in the world. reading Isn't fun. which is probably for the best it stops me from conquering the world and it keeps me connected with the rest of my senses. but it makes on line dating dubious at best. I love music but I'm not a fan of country or gangster rap. I'm usually in for Comedy or something light hearted.
The six things I could never do without
plumbing. now don't get me wrong I like to camp too but after the first night I start thinking of how I could make some sort of running hot water happen. that and how to make primitive tools and start fires is what makes camping fun.

skin. not only would we be a mess without it but I love skin. soft smooth healthy skin over softly defined curves. I'm a bit of a hairy dude so the first think you will grab will most likely be covered with hair and hard. but lady's are an absolutely delightful to touch partly because of skin.

Emotional intimacy an affection. We are such Funny monkeys.

feedback. no really, go make out with a bag of rice or try and debate with a brick. ask a tree for dating advice. look to a chair for a loving embrace. send resumes... Be a married guy on Okc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human condition. We are highly complex social monkeys. We should be trying to make a utopia....

The question of "freedom from or freedom to". A friend said that they like being in a monogamous marriage because their partner can't just leave them and they found that very reassuring. I said I liked being in an open marriage because I would rather know my partner is here by Choice.... I would never leave my wife. But life is a fluid and our relationship may change.

sustainable living. i have learned that farming is hard and vary necessary. Fossil fuels should stay buried but I don't have a solution yet so I can't complain.

automation. automation is the key to doing a lot of work without doing a lot of work.... but it takes a lot of work to get the automation. someday I will be able to be creative and lazy at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
find some good food. hang out with loved ones. maybe a walk and soak in the hot tub. it's pretty low-key around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Dear diary. I could never be a swinger. It's about enjoying an intimate connection not sex. If Venus herself ask me to do with her as I wish. She would get a conversation, full body massage and a cuddle. Until we could establish some trust and respect. But I so much want and enjoy physical interactions. And I want friendship that has value. I want friends that become family. I'm not here in private wifey is looking for something similar. She is bi and wants good girlfriends.
You should message me if
I just want to go on some new adventures, connect with people, grow. I'm looking for a best friend. I love being physically affectionate person so well a girl friend. I'm not vary good at this dating thing. I just can't come up with something novel to say to random strangers on mass.
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