42 Missoula, United States
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My self-summary
I've spent a long time as an army of one. I'm over education and under qualified for most jobs. I'm a vary passionate person but it's well tempered. I laugh at everything or at the least try. I think, work, relate best in 3D.
What I’m doing with my life
i have a BA in computer science and physics. My intention was to go into automation, but after six months in the basement, doing IT, I decided to become a pilot. I have worked about seven years as a flight instructor but it wasn't enough to pay the bills. Tried to change it up got disgusted with the airlines so I tried cropdusting ended up working as a welder to make ends meet. then gave it up for love and followed my wife back to Montana. This winter I worked with ski patrol. This summer was spent fixing a fixer-upper. Im doing ok. I think I've been in every tax bracket and found that in the end it doesn't mean much if you can't share it. But I'm thankful for the lesson. Now I'm just looking for people to share it with.
I’m really good at
keeping things real.
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh at my own jokes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
let's do this by lyric or quote.

"You came in that thing? You're braver than I thought."
"is that The logical thing to do? No it is the human thing to do"
"my brains your bronze and his steel again 60 man and you think a little head jiggles going to make me happy"
"Where did he learn to negotiate like that"
"What we lack in intelligence we make up for in good intentions"
"Because you're the best of what's left"
"I like the Austrian way better"

"I was waiting on a moment but that moment never came. All the million other moments just simply past away. "
"Forsaking love we seek the signs that are forever held behind the static on the radio"
"Than your nipples get hard and you stand start dancing a whole Nother kind away"
"Try and disappear but there is only one way out of here"
"It's the simple things that make you smile"
"Some people claim that there's a woman to blame. But I know it's my own dam falt."
"And I fear I have nothing to give."
The six things I could never do without
plumbing. now don't get me wrong I like to camp too but after the first night I start thinking of how I could make some sort of running hot water happen. that and how to make primitive tools and start fires is what makes camping fun.

skin. not only would we be a mess without it but I love skin. soft smooth healthy skin over softly defined curves. I'm a bit of a hairy dude so the first think you will grab will most likely be covered with hair and hard. but lady's are an absolutely delightful to touch partly because of skin.

Emotional intimacy and affection. We are such Funny monkeys.

feedback. no really, go make out with a bag of rice or try and debate with a brick. ask a tree for dating advice. look to a chair for a loving embrace. send resumes... Be a married guy on Okc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human condition. We are highly complex social monkeys. We should be trying to make a utopia....

The question of "freedom from or freedom to". A friend said that they like being in a monogamous marriage because their partner can't just leave them and they found that very reassuring. I said I liked being in an open marriage because I would rather know my partner is here by Choice.

sustainable living. i have learned that farming is hard and vary necessary. Fossil fuels should stay buried but I don't have a solution yet so I can't complain.

automation. automation is the key to doing a lot of work without doing a lot of work.... but it takes a lot of work to get the automation. someday I will be able to be creative and lazy at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
find some good food. hang out with loved ones. maybe a walk and soak in the hot tub. it's pretty low-key around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I couldn't do a one night stand. If Venus herself ask me to do with her as I wish. She would get a conversation, full body massage and a cuddle. Until we could establish some trust and respect. Intimacy is the thing of value. I want friends that become family.

I'm not here in private wifey is looking for something similar. She is bi and wants girlfriends too.

I can't watch the news. It makes me embarrassed to be an American... And sometime embarrassed to be human. I'm just trying to keep my poop in a pile. I aspire to be an orangutan. But Im a humanist.
You should message me if
You understand If I said I'm feeling lonely that doesn't mean I just want to talk or I need sex. I don't know. Lets go on some new adventures, connect and grow. If that means cuddle on the couch until the rain stops, great. Allow the relationship to have freedom to become whatever it wants. I want to know you for the rest of are lives in what ever form are relationship takes. I'm not vary good at this dating sites thing. I'm more of a hands on kind of guy. Let's just meet you in person and go for a walk or have tea.