I'm fairly new to this part of MA. I have a nice house with 2 fireplaces and a reasonable cook's kitchen. I would love to find a genuine woman who wants to be off line with a genuine guy. I have varied tastes in music, movies, books, activities, etc. It is about the person I am with, or my current mood, etc. If I can change the way I look at things the things I look at can change. My point is that it is who you are and yes, your eyes and smile - you look at the photos first, too :). If either of us is misleading about things it will come out and then there's no recovery. But, I try to look at this as "if we just met in public (the dreaded real world), might we hit it off?" If so then I generally don't get too concerned with "how we match" and say hello and when I do so it is with the respect you (everyone) deserves. If we match, and feel we have met the person we expected, then it should flow and we'll figure it out.
So, I try to have high hopes without expectations - But what if the Hokey Pokey really is what it's all about? :)
Oh yeah - Yes, I smoke but only when alone (or with other smokers) and never in my house (or any house).