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25 Ardmore, United States
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My self-summary
I find that I can't think of what to say in these boxes, and when I do, it doesn't seem like enough.

I'm a cisgendered, heterosexual, heteromantic male. I'm a very smart, kind, funny person. In Myer Briggs, My personality is ENFP. I'm pretty laid back, but I'm also a hard worker. I'm a people pleaser. I'm fascinated by what motivates people. I'm open-minded, compassionate, and strive to understand everyone's point of view. I'm also benevolently idealistic. I play guitar too. I think laughter is a wonderful thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Going to West Chester University to pursue a Bachelor's in Math Education. I want to teach it at the High School level or College. I haven't decided yet. I just know that a lot of students hate math once it gets to Algebra and especially Calculus. I want to be the cool weird math teacher that makes it interesting and fun (at least as much as possible). I think my students would be grateful.

I also tutor Calculus 2 at West Chester through the math department. Many of the people I've tutored were very grateful for my help and had improved grades as a result. I like helping people and knowing that I'm making a difference.
I’m really good at
Helping people. I'm a very good listener. I'm also very good at playing guitar. I've been playing for 7 years. I have perfect pitch, so I have a natural talent for music.

I'm also pretty funny in both a silly way and a deadpan way.

I'm very adaptable and good at adjusting to unpredictable scenarios.

I'm also good at not knowing what I am good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, my glasses. If I'm wearing a cool shirt, they will notice that.

I am not a good judge of the first thing that other people notice about me. Obviously other people are much better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Song of Ice and Fire (the Game of Thrones books), Divergent, The Fault in Our Stars, Looking for Alaska, The Great Gatsby, Catcher in The Rye, Time Traveler's Wife, Slaughterhouse Five, King Lear, Macbeth, Lord of The Flies, I am the Cheese, Night, The Glass Menagerie, Things Fall Apart, The Book Thief, (there are more but I can't remember at the moment)

Music: The Beatles, The Smiths, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Who, Steely Dan, Crosby Stills and Nash, Billy Joel, Queen, Bob Dylan, Jonathan Coulton, Prince, Weezer, Radiohead, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Blink 182, Green Day, Reel Big Fish, Sara Bareilles

TV: Game of Thrones, Masters of Sex, The Newsroom, Shameless, Lost, The Office, M*A*S*H, Frasier, Seinfeld, The Simpsons (The first 10 seasons), Family Guy (Before it got cancelled), The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, The Big Bang Theory

Movies: American Hustle, The Usual Suspects, The Big Lebowski, A Clockwork Orange, The new Marvel films,

I have a weakness for pop music. More so older pop music, but I listen to almost everything except rap. (I like rap when it serves as social commentary, not when it's misognyistic or in any way obnoxious.)
The six things I could never do without
My Guitar
Laughter
Friends
Music
Creativity
Compassion
Love

I know that's seven things, but I did not want to leave anything out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people act the way they do. I also have weird ideas that sometimes come out of nowhere. Like what if our bodies had a checks and balances system. So that if our brain wanted us to smoke, our heart and lungs would veto. Or if we wanted to drink alcohol, our livers would veto.

I'm also a little bit obsessed with Myers Briggs and other Personality theories. For those of you who are familiar with it, I'm an ENFP. I will probably try to figure out your type. Don't feel like a lab rat. It will help me relate to you and you will gain personal insight.

I've noticed that a lot of people on here say they spend a lot of time thinking about their future. While I do think about that, I'm pretty much centered in the present moment, since this is the only moment that life is available to us. The past is nothing more than a collection of memories and the future is a vague mist of possibilities. The present is HERE and NOW. I think about how what I do now affects my future. Even though I live in the present, I can see a few steps ahead.

I also think about how nice it would be to have a girlfriend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing, playing guitar, or on the computer. Sometimes, I will hang out with friends or see music at a bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually from the future. However my time machine broke, so now I'm slowly trying to build a new one. But I need a signifigant other to finish it so that I can take her away to a beautiful future that idealists always dream about.
You should message me if
You want someone who will take the time to listen.

You actually want to meet in person and want to do so sooner than later.
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