53Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
Genuinely nice guy but if you're with me you are safe. Successfully self-employed, living on my 35 foot sailboat.
update- don't know who notices (I didn't) the staff robot says I'm very dominant, don't think so. Sooner or later most people are happy to take direction from me, not about many things, not all the time, and that's not the goal, it's just that I sometimes see things a little more clearly.
Very lucky to have landed at Cal (stayed 6 yrs) for the anti-aparthied actions and had the chance to learn about politics and drop some assumptions about corporations, governments and people. It also began to help me see a place for myself in the world. I'm usually mellow, happy and humorous. I enjoy being alive in this most excellent place and most interesting time. I continue to know that if I have an inclination, it is a benevolent universe. Almost all of my adult life I've been in a relationship(4 major ones), trying not to have this period of dating feel like some kind of emergency, but I have to admit I don't entirely like it.
What I’m doing with my life
enjoying life, trying to keep a student attitude when i can get away with it, weekly gym, buddhist and outdoor activities
I’m really good at
remodeling houses and making a woman happy- no causal claim and not in that order
The first things people usually notice about me
what have i heard? eyes, persona "seemed very present", broadly knowledgeable, halo was crooked
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
almost always reading a least one book, some that spring to mind,
lite: Micheal Connelly(Harry Bosch not the lawyer), Carl Hiaasen, John D MacDonald, Rex Stout, Stephen King(gunslinger)

mid range: Octavia Butler, Margret Atwood, Barbara Kingslover, Kurt Vonnegut, Tom Robbins

hefty: Nabokov, Steinbeck, Karen Armstrong

many movies (no tv for a long time), most live performance- jazz, flamenco, most music- Little Feat, Ozomatli, Radiators, Gov't Mule, Wilco, most food- organic and local, off mammal meat for a bit
Six things I could never do without
air, cleaner is better
water, ditto
food, see above
reading, ditto
beautiful ocean covered planet, just made for me
beautiful women, especially the one with me ;/
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sex, spiritual path, to do list, sex, public radio or the book I'm reading, sex
On a typical Friday night I am
walk around the lake, wander thru a bookstore, maybe a movie or live music
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
when alone, at night I frequently eat too much, also have a lot of flying dreams :)
You should message me if
you're open-minded about growing together, appreciate physical contact, really like travel and adventure
The two of us