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My self-summary

In no particular order:

I'm a neuroscientist who lives by the beach. Life is sweet.

By day I study empathy, mirroring and the distributed self.

At night, I make music and paint with a camera.

I think that wealth consists of maximizing the amount of time in which you can do whatever the hell you want.

I really, really, really like live music. I am usually at a show or playing a show or preparing a show. I hope the afterlife is a bar with live bands, a pool table and a lot of trees.

Last, I believe attraction predates friendship as well as love and lust, so don't be put off if my intentions aren't clear at first. I'm usually figuring them out as I go along. Assume the best and I'll try to do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
putting people inside enormous magnets
analyzing their brains
aerial ballet
shooting pool
motion photography
dancing in public
cooking and eating
playing strange rock music
exploring natural and urban environments
singing opera in the shower
dancing to cuban music after I shower
painting my nails
questioning my schemas
biking around Venice
sitting still and doing absolutely nothing
I’m really good at
Hitting oversized apples with a baseball bat and lighting fireworks, in that order
The first things people usually notice about me
Wild hair, painted nails, nice suits, a tendency to climb things at inappropriate times and be very amused by the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Calvin and Hobbes, Kurt vonnegut, Oscar Wilde and Yukio Mishima. Dr. Seuss (a true artist), William Burroughs rocks socks. Jean genet, Susan sontag, graham greene, edgar allen poe, James Galvin, Margaret atwood, Steven Pinker, Truman Capote, Hemingway, Gore Vidal, Charles Bukowski, Simone de Beauvoir, Le Comte de Lautreamont, Frank Herbert!!!!

Underground, Beasts of the southern wild, wages of fear, man bites dog, american psycho, the Godfather I-II-III, Blues Brothers, Old Boy, The Saint, Natural Born Killers, A Clockwork Orange, Super Troopers, Jurassic Park, The Dreams of Akira Kurosawa, Even Dwarves started off small, Pinocchio, Meet The Feebles, Viy, Wages of Fear

Tom Waits and Nina Simone are gods. Prince, Chavela Vargas, Radiohead, McLusky, Slayer, Butthole Surfers, Django Reinhardt, Suuns, Tame Impala, Darkstar, David Bowie, Sam Cooke, Billie Holiday, FIDLAR, STS9, Tool, Primus, The Cramps, Cake, PJ Harvey, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen, Father John Misty, Melvins, Pixies, Quicksand.

Gnocchi with pesto. Really good cheese or butter with some good, crusty bread. Spinach with raisins and pine nuts, ribs, macaroni and cheese...If I'm on a budget, an avocado on a tortilla with some salt, accompanied by beer and hot sauce.
Six things I could never do without
Music, soft skin, good conversations, avocados, garlic, beauty, bourbon, weed, freaks, temporary insanity, books, unnecessary limits on my lists, mutually contradictory yet simultaneously held beliefs, deep breaths, ugly dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Gravity and levity
On a typical Friday night I am
fabolous dahling, just fabolous
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I may or may not worship the subgenius
You should message me if
you love the moon

you want to make art, discuss ideas or play music

you know what Shibari is.

you're an independent person who can teach me things
The two of us