28Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
DISCLAIMER: I'm here for friends because the algorithm is still very effective. Women, women of color, women that understand their power and their gifts.

I'm really not interested in befriending men. Unless you and your lady are amazing people to double date with. Or I'm confident you're not just trying to swoop.

Now back to me:
I love Oakland, though I'm worried for her. I enjoy great guttural laughs. I'm quick with the wit, or to offer you an earthly snack. I like chill times with great conversation. I'm left handed. I'm a revolutionary. I don't party much these days, but I guarantee I'm still a riot and a half. I have an amazing partner that I'm building a future with. I hope everyone on here gets that same honor, and when you do- you better work to keep it!
What I’m doing with my life
Oakland shit.

Being the best partner I can be for the best man in the world.

Spending a lot of my time learning as much as I can about everything I wish to master. Communication is my tool.

Humans are wildly creative individuals. I am constantly reminding myself to make time to speak through artistry.

Learning. Nurturing like all us powerful women should. Leveraging the balance of fulfilling my partners needs to ensure his success, and making the time for my own to ensure my success.
I’m really good at
I'm a scratch cook. Being a self aware Goddess. Let me play you a little ditty on the piano and sing you a little tune. Let's throw a huge party. If I'm throwing it, the energy will always be amazing with cheer and song, and it'll give me a reason to make all sorts of Goodies.

If your adventurous bone is itching, I've got 50 places that'll scratch it.

Progressive conversation. I'm getting to that age that I'm not trying to waste my time, nor my powerful words. We're building tomorrow with every sentence.
The first things people usually notice about me
The handsome gentleman at my side.

Dat smile doe.

I've somehow mastered the balance between refined woman, and corn-fed country ham.

I genuinely don't let the bastards drag me down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Philosophy is my new life. Using the past to construct my future.
Hegel, Confucius, Kierkegaard are some of my favorites so far, but I have way too much to learn to even start confidently conversing about anything.

Angela, Assata, X, Garvey, Huey

Man Man
No Doubt's Tragic Kingdom is still sick
Grimm Teachaz
James Blake
Jill Scott
Darwin Deez
Paul Simon
Fela Kuti
Thievery Corporation
Buena Vista Social Club
Spin Doctors
The Nothing To Lose soundtrack is still fire.
My man is a marvelous professional saxophonist. So I could just live off of his goodness.

Fruits. Veggies. Nuts. Seeds. Water.
And I use these elements so beautifully.
Six things I could never do without
The natural World and my ever-building relationship with it.

A pre-Colonial diet, and anybody of color should really do the same.



Knowledge of Self

Stay high. Stay motivated. Stay Hustlin. -something overtly TuPac (we share the same birthday.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... In a gigantic nutshell: the universe, energy, my community, and levels of kindness.

How I'm going to make today better than yesterday?

Talk less. Breathe deep more.

I appreciate the beauty of the women in this world. My man and I are always admiring respectfully.

How I can be the best partner for my man.

What songs I sound best singing.
What song would be best during this exact moment? I'm an excellent DJ for those long drives!

How am I going to use technology and grow into it and utilize it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Now, my Friday nights are beautiful, I've got a wonderful partner.

But, I fulfill my own needs too and I need more spice! I want some lady friends of color to spend quality time with. I need some dance floors to shake this ass, goodness. I want some night talking with somebody that just wants to elevate their mind with me.

Alcohol is a form of medicine, I don't abuse it. I'm too strong and too smart.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm constantly using what I dislike in others to build myself into a better person (these moments when I see somebody be some bullshit). The process is private, for sharing with anyone but yourself is just as bad as being that 💀
You should message me if
You have community events in Oakland that you're looking for a solid volunteer for.

You and your lady friends totally have warriors game parties.
Or game nights. I have balderdash in my trunk, and am ready to party. Haha

You're creating music to influence.
You have a cuddly dog or cat looking for more attention.
You're actively becoming a better person at all times. ("Who does that?" (Tally: 2 people that asked me this. 👽)
You're a wonderful woman with a child and you understand the power of a strong community behind your child's mind.
You're a Filipino woman like myself, or a woman of color.
You're Filipino and knowledgable about pre-colonial Philippines.
You're a part of a philosophy meet-up that's actually philosophizing.
You've come from nothing and build your fortress, or on your way to.
You're know the power of blackness.

You're awake.
The two of us