I'm social, self-confident, fit, ambitious, caring and looking for someone who generally shares these same traits and values.
I have lots friends from many phases of my life and I am very close with my family. I'm the youngest of 5 so I can pretty much get along with anyone, but having said that, I'm attracted to smart, kind people who take care of themselves both emotionally and physically.
I've had a couple of LTR's so I'm fairly good at relationships (or not depending on how cynical you are). I've been single for a while now and I actually enjoying dating, but I'm ultimately looking to find someone to share my life with. I'd love to have a family of my own someday if I meet the right guy.
I don't take myself or the bougie gay NYC life too seriously, and appreciate that trait in others. Even as a native New Yorker I love getting out to the country as possible, whether it's the beach, the woods or the mountains.
I enjoy the hunt as much as anyone (probably more), but after a few years of dating, I've realized that I'm not necessarily looking for a boyfriend or a husband anymore, but a partner who I can truly connect with.
I enjoy running, reading, gardening, cooking, travel, museums and other typical urban gay pastimes.
I'm also a pretty good cook and not bad with plants (and children) though not necessarily in that order....
Movies - Gattaca, Love Actually and basically any silly rom com (embarrassing but true)
Music - I'm not really into anything in particular, I choose music to fit my mood, classical on the weekday mornings, trashy pop/disco to work out or run to, jazz on lazy weekends, etc.
Love most types of food, will basically try anything and I love to cook and entertain.
Although someone once told me that my ideal partner would be...
"someone who is caring, kind, sweet and passionate, but driven in his own life, can be younger than you but an old soul, someone who can go toe to toe with you but also cuddle up and someone who is good at being social but more a home body"
If any of this resonates with you drop me a line....