30Bloomington, United States
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My self-summary
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I am looking for a guy, who doesn't see me as a silent tool, a home decoration, an emotional trashcan, or just an intelligent and hard-working professional partner. I am looking for a guy, who will care for me and appreciate me as a woman. I am looking for a guy who is able to and is willing to support me and let me depend on him when I am vulnerable. That's difficult? Yes. Am I picky? Super! But just let me keep my fingers crossed, for a miracle.

I am strictly monogamous. Please don't bother me if you are not.
Come from China, have begun the sixth year in U.S, Ph.D candidate now. My specific research area is fun and weird but I don't want to say it clearly here.

Intelligent conversation is super important for me. I really wish I can find someone whom I look upon to. So yes, I am a nerd but not boring. Well, if you are a super party dog, I may be very boring for you.

In my leisure time, I hang out with friends, cook, play video/board games, and do some handwork including cross stitch, ribbon embroidery, painting with numbers and etc. I also enjoy nature (I once went to Tibet for a whole month to shoot a documentary film). But sadly is, I don't have too many chances to enjoy nature after came to America.

I am bad at sports... What is my favorite sport? Meh, I can swim, bike, golf, and roller skate. "Can" means "only be able to". Some extreme sports sounds very attractive to me but still, did not have too many chances to try before. I tried scuba diving recently and it was so amazing. I am planning to get a scuba diving certificate soon. In addition, I really love roller coaster.

I am looking for someone who is intelligent and serious about relationship. It doesn't mean that I will think about serious relationship or marriage at the first date. But I at least need to know that what page we are in. I refuse someone who always makes me confused. I refuse someone who always uses drunk as an excuse to lie to me and toy me.

I don't want to hide that I have been seriously wounded in last relationship. I stupidly fell in love with a wrong guy, who even does not know how to respect and appreciate me. However, I have learned from the bad experience and I will not be fooled again.

BTW, I was not born and raised in U.S so there will be cultural gap. I have tried hard to get involved in American culture. But, I have only spoken English for several years and I still cannot speak as a native speaker. I am looking for someone who can accept and handle this inconvenience.
What I’m doing with my life
Wish to finish my Ph.D program in the near future and then find a faculty position in America.
I’m really good at
Cooking, handwork, chasing my cat. In addition, I am really talkative.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Criminal minds
Chinese food
Love every kind of books. Wish I can know something in every area.
Six things I could never do without
My laptop
Talktative friends
Interest research topic
Spicy food
Pumpkin (my kitty)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future
My research
Can anyone teach me any kind of sports because I really have problem of coordination.
Can I really find my happy life after all those hard times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Stay at home, cooking, reading, or playing games. Hanging out with friends sometimes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I look like really tough and bold but kinda of shy and sensitive inside.
You should message me if
You're well-educated.
You don't have kids yet.
You're smart.
You're also weird.
You think we will have a lot of common language.
You are always straightforward.
Most important: you're emotionally mature.
The two of us