40 Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
Thanks for stopping by my profile...I hope you are intrigued! Looking for a hookup, want to "hang out", or interested in a pen pal? If so....move on...I'm not interested! I wish you all the best in your search.

I've been dating for well over half of my life and...I'M EXHAUSTED!!! LOL!! That being said, I refuse to give up the hope that he's out there. I've met a lot of really great guys through the years...but still single.

First and foremost...I'm looking for a good person. A man who is secure enough with himself to let me be me, but who is there when I need him. I am ready to make a relationship A PRIORITY and I'm seeking the same in return. I don't want anyone to "complete" me and I don't expect to do that for him. A man that will enjoy my energy and still challenge me. Done with the Peter Pan types, the guy that is still "window shopping", or the guy that isn't ready for an actual relationship. A true gentleman that is emotionally available, financially and mentally stable, and doesn't take himself or life too seriously. PLEASE READ THAT PARAGRAPH AGAIN.

I'm very outgoing, quick-witted, terribly honest, hilarious, and the biggest hopeful romantic that you will ever meet. I've recently realized that more than the fairy tale...I'd like a real real life! A man who enjoys the chase and won't back down!!!

I live by the platinum rule, treat others as they want to be treated. It's a little different...and takes a bit of work to figure out how to accomplish...but it's worth it!!
What I’m doing with my life
I am in the HR field and honestly LOVE what I do. Couldn't really imagine doing anything else!
I’m really good at
What am I really good at?!! LOVE food and entertaining. This is a nice perk for my friends and family so my skills are always being perfected!

I've been told that my story-telling abilities warrent a new reality show. I'm guessing that is because I'm never one to shy away from a crowd and I seem to find myself in the most interesting situations. Get ready to laugh!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am at a loss...I actually have nooooo idea. This will now become a topic of conversation at my next gathering of friends!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books- Finished the "Shades of Grey"trilogy. AMAZING BOOKS...kind of missing the main character!!! I couldn't put it down...might go so far as to say that it should be required reading for single people!!! Guys...TAKE NOTES!!!!!! :)
House of the Spirits, Gone with the Wind, Anna Karenina, Boxcar Children series

Movies- Gone with the Wind, The Holiday, The Rock

Shows- Top Chef, Law & Order, Once Upon a Time, Iron Chef

Music- NEW KIDS ON THE BLOCK!!! Stop laughing!

Food- All of it!!! :)
The six things I could never do without
I'm going to mix in the shallow necessities here too!!

1) Family
2) Friends
3) iPhone
4) My Kindle
5) Truffle oil
6) Bad reality shows
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work. But I'm easily distracted by a multitude of other subjects....planning fun nights out, the latest book I'm reading, what I should serve for the next game night, world peace....
On a typical Friday night I am
Planning when and where the weekend fun will start!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a rather large collection of tiaras. It's now caught on with all of my friends and I usually have a tiara for every occasion. And yes...there is an "everyday tiara".
You should message me if
If you KNOW you are ready for a relationship, done with the head games, willing to actually "date" a woman, can take charge, and are excited about your next adventure!