I am looking for people to have stimulating discussions with, who have the desire to get to know me and all the positives I have to share.
I am interested in someone who wants to connect with me, who will value and respect me and those in my life.
But I do defer to Husband and seek his approval before I could contemplate being at someone's mercy. ( see below )
I am married to my Master, (http://www.okcupid.com/profile/BodicainKing) who is my primary partner in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. He's pretty awesome and you should totally check him out too.
A relic of earlier OKC days, the three words that describe me are: unusual, thoughtful, and subby.
I have two adorable back kitties whom I love dearly. Master calls them my witch's cats. Their names are a touch unusual, it simply reflects the inner geek as well as suiting their personalities.
I have been learning to crochet as well as getting back into reading. I make my weekends about the people I adore.
I'm good at crafts, reading, making tea. "There's lots of very explicit sexual stuff"
I am good at enslaving friends to make bunting, chilling out, introducing people to TV and movies, listening, caring, baking, cooking
I am also good at slinking around in corsets and various lacey or PVC outfits looking like an ultimate fetish pirate wench too! This I do tend to reserve for home, unless I am going out somewhere.
My long hair, and the clothes I wear when I am trying to be pretty. Cat and Pig ears have been known to make an appearance.
Failing that something weird I'm doing or saying...It's not normally deliberate as such, its just who i am.
What people remember is my soulless eyes and my smile
I have very few movies that are favourites as I'll watch anything I'm told to - but I corrupt people with hedwig and the angry inch, velvet goldmine and labyrinth I also am enjoying more sci fi films as my Husband shows me his movie collection.
Music - anything old but especially alice cooper or queen I'm also becoming a voltaire fangirl. I also like musical comedy such as tim minchin, tom lehrer and weird al.
Foods - Chocolate! (yes, clichéd, but I love it!) More Chocolate! Tea, especially Earl Grey, I introduce many people to the concept of tea beyond Tetleys. I enjoy loose leaf tea in teapots especially.
I am loving having my own kitchen and cooking stuff! I keep getting set baking challenges by a colleague who ends up with ingredients she has no idea what to do with. It's fun *and* tasty!
Friends/lovers I know it's cliché but my friends and partners mean the world to me. I rarely show them enough appreciation or acknowledgement but they are in my heart and I couldn't do without them.
Books - even as a child I loved books. Apparently when I broke my ankle I was really shaken and unsteady right up until I had the chance to get a book out when I immediately calmed and went into another world.
My kittens, they're wonderful.
Inner strength - I've learnt in the last few years that I can have a lot of this
Who am 'I'.
Why people act as they do.
What the future holds.
How wonderful friends can be.
The alternatives to public policy.
I'm loyal to a fault even when I don't want to be.
Seriously, I'm shy and afraid of having my time wasted. It takes a lot for me to trust someone with my presence If you want a friend or submissive, let me know, tell me about yourself.