32Milton Keynes, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I am an oddball kitten who enjoys showing people new things and attempting to make people happy. I am curious about most things and love to listen to people waxing lyrical about their passions.

I am looking for people to have stimulating discussions with, who have the desire to get to know me and all the positives I have to share.

I am interested in someone who wants to connect with me, who will value and respect me and those in my life.

But I do defer to Husband and seek his approval before I could contemplate being at someone's mercy. ( see below )

I am married to my Master, ( who is my primary partner in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. He's pretty awesome and you should totally check him out too.

A relic of earlier OKC days, the three words that describe me are: unusual, thoughtful, and subby.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a pretty normal 9-5 job. It pays the bills and allows me to do things I want to with my spare time.

I have two adorable back kitties whom I love dearly. Master calls them my witch's cats. Their names are a touch unusual, it simply reflects the inner geek as well as suiting their personalities.

I have been learning to crochet as well as getting back into reading. I make my weekends about the people I adore.
I’m really good at
I have crowdsourced this section to give you a fair idea.

I'm good at crafts, reading, making tea. "There's lots of very explicit sexual stuff"
I am good at enslaving friends to make bunting, chilling out, introducing people to TV and movies, listening, caring, baking, cooking

I am also good at slinking around in corsets and various lacey or PVC outfits looking like an ultimate fetish pirate wench too! This I do tend to reserve for home, unless I am going out somewhere.
The first things people usually notice about me
My ability to appear next to someone with a cup of tea for them

My long hair, and the clothes I wear when I am trying to be pretty. Cat and Pig ears have been known to make an appearance.

Failing that something weird I'm doing or saying...It's not normally deliberate as such, its just who i am.

What people remember is my soulless eyes and my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
anything anne rice, L.J smith, paula danzinger or jane austin - failing that, anything with words. I enjoy reading immensely though often don't have the time these days, I did manage to get through the Story of O in two days. Apparently I have found out that when I deal with physical trauma my ability to cope is related to how near a book is to me and if I can read it.

I have very few movies that are favourites as I'll watch anything I'm told to - but I corrupt people with hedwig and the angry inch, velvet goldmine and labyrinth I also am enjoying more sci fi films as my Husband shows me his movie collection.

Music - anything old but especially alice cooper or queen I'm also becoming a voltaire fangirl. I also like musical comedy such as tim minchin, tom lehrer and weird al.

Foods - Chocolate! (yes, clichéd, but I love it!) More Chocolate! Tea, especially Earl Grey, I introduce many people to the concept of tea beyond Tetleys. I enjoy loose leaf tea in teapots especially.

I am loving having my own kitchen and cooking stuff! I keep getting set baking challenges by a colleague who ends up with ingredients she has no idea what to do with. It's fun *and* tasty!
Six things I could never do without
A good cuddle when needed.

Friends/lovers I know it's cliché but my friends and partners mean the world to me. I rarely show them enough appreciation or acknowledgement but they are in my heart and I couldn't do without them.

Books - even as a child I loved books. Apparently when I broke my ankle I was really shaken and unsteady right up until I had the chance to get a book out when I immediately calmed and went into another world.

My kittens, they're wonderful.

Inner strength - I've learnt in the last few years that I can have a lot of this

Gilmore girls.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is 'good' and 'bad' self worth.

Who am 'I'.

Why people act as they do.

What the future holds.

How wonderful friends can be.

The alternatives to public policy.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home crafting or playing with my desires (and those of others).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I was a kitten sometimes and dream of having a cute goth girl whom I can have all sorts of fun with

I'm loyal to a fault even when I don't want to be.
You should message me if
You want to? Or if you are looking for someone like me to have fun/ connect with ?

Seriously, I'm shy and afraid of having my time wasted. It takes a lot for me to trust someone with my presence If you want a friend or submissive, let me know, tell me about yourself.
The two of us