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My self-summary
First of all, if I write to you it's because I'm interested in an honest and genuine way. No spam contacting, no insecurities to be quelled and no games to be played of course. If it was a matter of wanting, want I want is simple; I want someone to actively participate in my life (and vice-versa), someone that I'm naturally attracted to (and vice-versa) and of course someone with a good heart. Is there any other way?

I’m creative, open minded, down to earth –easy to talk to- and appreciative of life and people. At the level of a first meeting I would say that I’m an interested and very active person. I’m in a very challenging, competitive and forever innovative business that keeps me young and on my toes. I’m professionally occupied and intellectually engaged yes but I will always have time for a friend and nothing could me more important to me than discovering someone precious to share the magic of life with. I’m forever intrigued and interested in learning and discovering and nothing could possibly more interesting than you…

But as fun as it could be, this is not just an exploration game as I do cherish so much the beauty of what a relationship is and what being a couple means. I'm looking for a real partner and team player; someone to share, make noise and conquer with, someone special also to be quiet with, feel close... and find peace.

Sure I’m passionate, intimate and romantic -and there’s a lot more about me as I suspect that there’s a lot more about you- but I consider those things to be private, the kind of things to be discovered between two people who like each other and are growing closer…

I’m homesick for a place that I have never been... Longing for someone that I’ve never met.

About my date: Someone who provokes my thinking and my imagination and who likes to be provoked in the same way. Of course physical attraction is important but it is not the only thing. I appreciate good company and a good conversation casual or otherwise. And I would always have time and cherish friendships.

Someone (female) who would write something like this...

"The people I am most drawn to are emotionally engaging and intellectually curious. They're in touch with their bodies and are sensual beings. I almost hate to use the term because it elicits the "wrong" responses, but it is fitting."

I do have a sense of humor of course, but this "presenting myself to the world" in a cold resume-like format it's not that funny and it feels uptight. I'm far more "lightheaded" in person and more whiling to laugh and be in the moment.
What I’m doing with my life
Aside from the ongoings of staying on top on the technical stuff I've set time aside to be an "artist artist" again. Meditation was "too boring" and unproductive for me (lol), but drawing and going through the creative process works like a charm. Art is my natural center and not only I'm more centered now than ever before, but I found out that the art actually helps others to fine center in themselves. I'm fine where I'm lately, being with oneself for periods of time is healthy, but I'm a sharing person by nature and I cant help but to feel that something fundamental is missing (as per nature's master design).

Personally I'm comfortable where I'm spiritually and emotionally, I have good friends, great kids (although a bit scatter at the moment), but -and perhaps like you- I'm looking for that someone special to partner and share life experiences with.
I’m really good at
Professionally I'm a well accomplish artist and business entrepreneur and I make a living out of using my imagination. I'm good at visualizing things and making them happen, be it a movie, a comic book or a videogame. I'm an independent developer and I have my own company, but I'm now concentrating in "developing" my art's depth, meaning and reach.

Socially I'm very good at not arguing, about having an opinion and making a point, but without forcing it on anyone. Logic and common sense rain supreme and if you have a more intelligent insight than mine then i'll be eager to adopt it and add it into my life. "The best form of persuasion is the one that does nor require for the other person to be persuaded... at all"

I'm attentive, responsive and affectionate... and quite a romantic fool.
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes perhaps (they say), intensity with calmness, quiet confidence... don't know, you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-love and appreciate "good food" of any kind, but more of a tapas bite and taste than just filling up... and exploring and sharing with some one who enjoys it as much as i do.
-broad in the music front but with an inclination towards rebellious energy (with some melody and/or smart lyrics).
-last read, "the last lecture" (randy pausch)
-best and most enlightening "a stroke of inside" (by Jill Bolte)
-no time to read fiction or literature (this days).
Six things I could never do without
Water, food and hope... and then beauty, intellectual stimulation, creativity, animals, nature, friends, good coffee, true love (for extended periods of time), a heart... and silly questions like this?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how not to think...
On a typical Friday night I am
with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
worse question yet... i mean really.
You should message me if
You're looking for a true partner and not just a free ride, someone to bond with, someone special to grip and hold on to... for the best-yet ride of our lives. I'm a gentlemen and I will treat you as such in substance and stile, I'll be the man, treat you like a lady and take care of things (if that pleases you), BUT NEVER EVER at the expense of true closeness, true friendship and a meaningful relationship.
The two of us