48 Bend, United States
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My self-summary
For much of my life, I was promiscuous. Promiscuous with my emotions. You see, I am a pretty drama free guy. I was raised by a loving mother and father in a stable environment and have had the same best friend for over 35 years. So when I reached adulthood, I found myself trying to rescue just about any attractive woman who seemed to be struggling with life and sent a knowing smile my way.

The painful conclusion I came to a few years back (yes, it took me THAT long) was that while everyone has their emotional winters to deal with (including me), there seems to be a population who are subconsciously attracted to self destruction and can never really be happy because in some weird way, being unhappy is what makes them happy.

So I'm in a place now where I want to be with someone who has happiness in their very nature. Who doesn't always find what's wrong with everything. Who can shower me with appreciation as much as I shower it on her.

I am also in a phase where I need a woman who is bold enough to reach out to me. I am open to dating, I'm just not actively seeking it out, if that makes sense.

Is that you?
What I’m doing with my life
I have a small video production company but also just launched a website. I can work hard and have time to play hard as well. I set my own schedule. I mostly moved to Bend (three years ago) for the cross-country skiing and outdoor lifestyle. I went to a great deal of sacrifice to move here, so I'm taking the time to become an active member of the community.
I’m really good at
Performing music, predicting the weather (not kidding), scaling hills on my XC skiis, and adapting to whatever comes my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes. Quirky Sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lord of the Rings would count in books AND movies (I know, I'm a geek at times), Shawshank Redemption, and Contact are fav movies and anything by Monty Python. Music is Beatles, Foo Fighters, Peter Gabriel, Alison Krauss, all over the place. Food? I love everying, but Curry, Salmon, Crab, and Tacos/Nachos make the list too.
The six things I could never do without
Gratitude for living.
Cosmology (note: not Cosmetology)
Playing music
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to enjoy the moment I am living in, while preparing for the future and learning from the past.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having cocktails with friends or recording music in my studio.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a near death experience. It changed my life. No visions, no out of body experience, just a gratitude for breathing.
You should message me if
You like good men with a penchant for naughtiness.
You know that a partnership is a two way street.
You have a zest for living and a sense of adventure.
You are a giver looking for another giver.