I think we all know relationships take work, and if a relationship works then monogamy should never be hard.
I would hope the following describes you:
Loves dogs (Yup, I've got an rambunctious 20 month old Belgian Shepard who loves everything around her).
Enjoys the arts (Movies, theatre, willing to go see live music).
Travel ( We get it, we all enjoy the opportunity to explore other places and I do too).
Know what you want (Ok, this can be tough for some but at least be able provide a "heads up", as to what you would like to do. A man should be able to take care of the arrangements from there. On a deeper note, over time it would be essential to know what your life's aspirations are, whether it be career, humanitarian, etc. I would enjoy the opportunity to take care of a best friend and lover, insight into "how to" I think, would be important).
Sense of humor (Be prepared to laugh a lot. If you can't do silly then we can't be together).
Belief in a higher power (Without it, I just don't see how we would be a match).
Health (No specific request here. Just respect yourself, that you would want to take care of yourself. I've come to notice, the successful, happy couples, the ones smling all the time, seem to have a trait common amongst them.....they all get out and do things that are physical).
Desire for us to be happy (I know I do).
My family (see the below).
My friends (see the above).
I know thats only five, The rest just doesn't seem important enough to mention. Perhaps if there was a significant other in my life.........