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My self-summary
Hmmmm who am I? can that really be answered with words? I doubt it. But I shall try to at least sketch my outlines and let you fill in the rest by getting to know me.
I am involved int local leather scene. I'd like to think I know a good number of people, but I always enjoy meeting others. Being kinky is a part of who I am. That dosent mean I seek only other people like me, but realize that I will not deny that part of myself.
Second, I am polyamorous. This means that my love cannot be limited to one person at a time. Currently I have a wonderful girlfriend. Having said that, I'm not looking for more partners at the moment. I am seeking more feminine energy however, whatever physical form that comes in. I do not discriminate on gender, gender expression, or sexual orientation. I want my partners to feel the same way. So if your not cool with ANY part of the LGBT spectrum, don't bother. As an added note, if what's between my legs is at all a concern, we may have issues.
I am also very affectionate. I love cuddling and hugging, so be prepared to get a big hug on out first meeting.
I am also very easy-going and like it that way. Not much will bother me, but I do have a few issues I get serious about. I prefer to "work to live" instead of "live to work."
That's a brief summary of who I am, now what about you?
What I’m doing with my life
I am a software engineer with little aspirations for moving up in any given company. I like writing the code and designing the software. I love designing the whole shebang, then getting down to the nitty gritty. I would love to spend the rest of my life of here in Colorado. The skiing and hiking have me hooked, and the Denver area events/activities are wonderful. I'm always striving to align my personal and professional life with my values and ideals.
I’m really good at
I'm good at my job. I can design software with the best of 'em and I know it.
I'm also good at listening to other people and figuring out what they need. This is what makes me happiest, when the others around me are happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
This is an odd section, I don't know if I like it or not. But I get my smile a lot. People say it is very warm and welcoming. I like to think that this is a reflection of my personality.
Along those same lines is my eyes. They fluctuate between green and blue, like a mood ring I guess. Anyways, they say the eyes are the window to the soul, so I think that this means that people see a good person in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The following is merely a short collection of my favorite things

Books: Dresden series, Dune series, Kushiel series.
Movies: Inception, Contact, anything with Leonardo DiCaprio or Robert Downy Junior :3
Music: I'm good with any music except country and some rap (I <3 Eminem though)
Food: I am a meatatarian, this is slowly changing however. I love the asian salads with the ginger dressing.
Six things I could never do without
I think I will ignore the obvious things such as those found on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. I shall focus on the "non-essential" essentials.
Relationships. That may seem like cheating, but without my connection to people I love, life loses a lot of meaning.
My cats. Don't get me wrong, I'm not some crazy cat lady, but my 2 kitties mean the world to me. I try not to spoil them, and one of them can be downright vicious, but they're are still very important to me.
My car. Without this I couldn't go see my friends.
My smart phone. I used to think I had no use for a smart phone, but now I use it more than my computer. This has become an essential communication tool for me.
Netflix. I can't count the number of times I've watched something on netflix instant play to help relieve boredom.

I can't really think of a sixth and the 5th is dubious as well. So please don't come at me with pitchforks for not having a sixth item, instead come at me with pitchforks for a good night of fun :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recently, I've though about inter-personal connections and how to build them up. They can be so tenuous at times, but once made strong can withstand almost anything.
I also think about where I want to go in life and how to get there. I can see clearly what I want, and the path is becoming clear, but the way is always rocky and unexpected thing may happen. These can turn you in a new direction and help you achieve things beyond your dreams.
Ah well, enough philosophizing. I guess I think about everything from what I want to eat to "where is my place in the world?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical dosen't really apply to my days recently. Sometimes I enjoy a night in with my friends. Other times, I go out and have fun at various events around town. It really depends on how I feel and what's on my plate for the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very open person, the only thing I tend to be guarded about is my emotions. I do love to share them, however being vulnerable scares me.
You should message me if
You read my profile and didn't run away in fear. I will try and respond, but life can get in the way and I forget to check here. You may get a 1 or 2 word response, this is just my way of saying yes I'm here don't run off.
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