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My self-summary
My heart is more inquisitive and unassuming, my mind more open and fearless than is, well, average. I consider myself caring, intelligent, and spontaneous.

I am most passionate about cultivating our human/primate potential for connection, joy, courage, strength, resilience, balance, gratitude, power, change and peace. I relish joining with and being reflected in nature's awesome presence. I love learning about both the cosmos and the atom.

On the Meyers Briggs I'm supposedly an INFJ, but the "Introvert" aspect can also be extroverted. Maybe I'm just versatile:)?
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a clinical social worker stabilizing and offering therapy to vulnerable folks.

I prioritize maintaining an artistic balance in life. I'm (hopefully) improving my moves in salsa dancing; finding time for high sierra backpacking trips, practicing Martial Arts (Aikido) and also the arts (painting, poetry).

I cultivate a Buddhist practice swell as the study of the psychology of spirit within the Ridhwan School.
I’m really good at
Being tender . Backpacking . Conversing . Dancing . Inspiring . Cooking . Appreciating art . Writing . Interpreting California Natural History . Brainstorming . Laughing . Exploring. Erupting. Nurturing. "Aikido-ing" . Being loyal . Giving feedback . Receiving feedback . Growing. Teaching. Resonating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure if I like this question. Maybe, ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nabokov . Murakami . Pollan . McCarthy . Melville . O'Connor . Borges . Lorca . Dunn . Rumi . Oliver . Lammot . Marquez . Diamond . Morrison . Kornfield . Chodron . Kristeva . Snyder . Lispector . Williams . Kerouac . Pynchon . Tannen . Kipnis . Miller . Cortazar . Social service journals . The New Yorker . Others too numerous to mention.

I am pretty eclectic and adventurous in my musical taste: world music, jazz, blues, Afro-Cuban salsa , classic rock, exotic voices, classical Indian, indie rock, flamenco guitar, Japanese flute, Usted Ali Khan. Almost anything acoustic....I'd like to explore more and learn from you.

I prefer foreign, indie, silent, sleepers or cult-classics (i.e. Airplane, Harold and Maude). I don't own a television:).

I eat to live rather than live to eat. I grew up in California so, go for healthy fresh food.
Six things I could never do without
Vision, purpose, meaning, and goals.
A home sanctuary that is beautiful and peaceful.
A good night's sleep.
My calico cat Pumpkin.
Intimate conversation.
Affection: hugs, snugs, roll-in-the-rugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to grow and express my strengths in the most profound and effective ways; how to best support the people in my life; how to stay honest and true to myself and others 100% of the time; how to plan for the future and invest in myself and in relationships; how to actualize freedom.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a quieter night, I am reading, writing, talking and tending; on an active night, I'm out dancing or dining or prowling for animals on a night hike (no joke); otherwise I'm seeing at an art opening, theater, modern dance or live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A "pursuer"/"distancer" cycle in relationships is very uncomfortable for me. Conversely, warmth, directness, authenticity, confidence, non-reactivity, passion, groundedness, connectivity and transparency are qualities that I find attractive.
You should message me if
If you're an exceptional man who is looking for an exceptional woman.
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