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My self-summary
In my apartment you'll find two dozen houseplants and a bookcase of LPs, which says that I'm nurturing and a bit retro. Looking around, you might deduce that I like books, travel, biking, art, my family, cats and shoes. If you spend time with me, you might discover the type of man I could fall for; he's warm, smart, artsy, poised and sensual, and appreciates these same qualities in a woman.

Born and bred in the wilds of Long Island, a Manhattanite since 1985. Lived in Japan and snorkeled in Australia. Never married, though open to life's possibilities.

My polite exterior hides a punchy sense of humor. Also a soft heart. I try to treat people and animals with fairness and kindness. I'm comfortable with noncomformity and a stickler for good grammar. An easy conversationalist, I find peace in my own company.

Among my good habits: I’m into healthy, vegetarian food (snaps to my neigborhood greenmarket) and regular workouts. Among my bad habits: I like to stay up late, may leave dishes in the sink, have watched "Wife Swap" more than once.
What I’m doing with my life
My best.

I believe in my work teaching communication skills to budding doctors and nurses. (And I like the flexible schedule--it's great hitting the gym in the afternoon when most everyone is at work.)

For pleasure? I seek the romance of old New York--highballs at the Algonquin or a rendezvous at Grand Central Station. I'm a sucker for 1930's Hollywood movies. I play in a regular poker game--low stakes but high drama. My latest passion is Yiddish (ikh heys Esther). I'm devoted to my woman's book group of 25 years. The wilderness calls--I love to hike, camp and swim. I hop on my bike for rides in nearby Central Park or to the Met. My yoga class is a daily joy. I generally/genuinely like the company of kids.
I’m really good at
Schmoozing. My friends say I'd make a great talk show host. I hope that means I'm sensitive to social nuance and good at drawing people out.

Finding my way; I'm unafraid and have an excellent sense of direction.

Making up games--handy on long car rides.

Word play. Dancing. Picking good fruit.
The first things people usually notice about me
Likely, as Katharine Hepburn says to Spencer Tracy in "Desk Set," that I'm female.

Based on comments from strangers--my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Two favorite genres are popular science books (I like learning about how people and the universe work) and 19th c. British novels.

Poetry: H.D. Doolittle, Robert Frost, Shakespeare's sonnets (I like to recite them in private). A favorite poem:;view=fulltext

Movies: Satyajit Ray and Michael Powell (directors), 30's and 40's Hollywood, X-Men.

Music: Folk/rock (Richard Thompson, Donovan, Joni Mitchell, Neil Young), alternative/indie (Belle and Sebastian) standards (Ella, Sinatra), classical--particularly opera (Handel, Mozart), klezmer (Daniel Kahn, Psoy Koronlenko).

Food: Diverse ethnic cuisines, spicy. Big fruit fan. I abstain from eating meat and foul, though you needn't.

Least favorite things: Narcissism, right-wing politics, cutting in line, the street corner odor of honey-roasted nuts, highly processed food, cruelty in any form.
Six things I could never do without
My cats (now in memory)
Seasonal fruit
The great outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ultimate question: What's it all about, Alfie?
On a typical Friday night I am
Catching up with friends over dinner or kicking back with an old movie at home. Lately I'm obsessed by election coverage, so I may be watching Rachel Maddow.
You should message me if
you've got a hunch about us.

My wish list: You’re brainy though not self-serious, engaging, competent, physically fit/at ease in your body, into the arts and/or progressive politics, a keen observer and a graceful conversationalist (both give and take). Extra points if you can change a flat. Of course, none of us is perfect, so I'm prepared to appreciate your lovable quirks. And I won't mind at all if you are nice to look at.
The two of us