38Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I like to cook. I love to drink wine. I love good cheese. I love fancy things like fine china and crystal and I am a collector of said niceties. I love coffee but I've been drinking tea. I love my space to have lots of visual stimuli. I like getting exercise, and my current exercise of choice is lifting weights at the gym. I've been a bit obsessed with gyming for the last few months (like days a week obsessed), and am happy with the results. I like to sew, and I like to make things that are pretty. My home is my sanctuary; the way that it looks and feels is everything to me.
I do the hur cuts. Specifically, I etch. It's like graphic-design, 'cept on your head.
I do the architectures. It's like hurcutts. If yur nest was made of hur.
I'm an Inn-keeper. I answer the phone and take your reservation and check you in and go into your room while you're out and empty your trash and take your mascarrad washcloths away and bring clean washcloths and I make your bed and definitely don't go through your things most of the time and then when you leave I clean up after you and take away your cummy condoms and find your $100 blown glass dildo and mail it back to you and rarely get tipped by you.
I serve at a restaurant.
I'm building a house in West Seattle. Still. Imma have a yard.
I'm going to go to massage school this coming fall.
I'm looking for adventure. I'm looking for friends, sex, lovers, and love. I am looking for insight, activities, ideas, and co-conspireters. I am looking for design opportunities- whether they be spatial, two-dimensional, or experiential.
I am a "weirdo". I think you should be too. Normal is boring.
I've realized that I shouldn't read your answers to the questions which determine if we're a match. Nobody wants all of what they think they want and nobody believes all of what they think they believe.
What I’m doing with my life
Building a house. Going to work... works.... Getting older.
I’m really good at
I'm good at hosting: house guests, dinner guests, party guests, and dates. I love to host, it is a great pleasure for me.
I'm not so bad at skiing, I used to be a ski instructor.
I'm really good at cleaning and pretty good at organizing.
The first things people usually notice about me
People realize pretty quickly that I have my life together and my career is about to take off. They're totally wrong but they continue to think it... even after I correct them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
LIT: Tom Spanbauer's Now Is the Hour is my favorite book, but I also love his others (The man who fell in love with the moon, Shy hunters)
I very much like the Game of Thrones books, and the show.
Wreaththu by Storm Constantine is wonderful.
Middlesex, Neal Stephenson (diamond age, cryptonomicon, snow crash), Ken Follett (the pillars of the earth, et. al., fall of giants, et. al).
Michael Cunningham.

I despise TV culture, mainstream TV tried to make me stupid and lazy and was so successful that now it's a journey to repair the damage... but I'm coming along.

MOV: It is a very strange thing, this neuroses of mine. I get anxiety at the prospect of watching movies I haven't seen before. I have some ideas as to why but that goes into to the secret admissions essay. The type of movies I like are, and this is often true of books too, scifi and fantasy.
Six things I could never do without
A real comfy bed.
A place to call home, to feel safe in, to entertain from.
My family.
A beard trimmer. Wait that is 7... sorry not sorry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm just a huge day-dreamer. I'm always in a fantasy. It's... not really a good thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting together with friends, having libations, talking and laughing and flirting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am afraid of emotions. I am afraid of breaking your heart, much more than I am afraid of you breaking mine. I got some walls up.
You should message me if
You are smart and fun and funny and sexy... OR if you think I'm funny. Thinking I'm funny really is the fasted way to my heart.
The two of us