I'm direct in what I say, if I say something about myself, it’s the truth. It’s difficult enough remembering what I say to whom without having to additionally compound that by telling half truths or lies. I don’t dish out BS and in return don’t accept it. I know, both of equal importance, who I am and who/what I am looking for in a partner. I am successful in what ventures I have undertaken in the past, in what I am currently doing in my life and am confident that I will succeed in my venture that I plan on undertaking in my retirement (no I am not someone that can sit around idly waiting for time to pass, being productive, having something to occupy my hands and challenge my mind is of extreme importance to me) and on that note, any potential match must view life along the same principals.
I enjoy high activity sports, more so if they revolve around water or wilderness, having never lived in a country that has enough snow to try snow sports, I don’t know what my stance would be on that, I do however feel that screaming down a mountainside attached to 2 very thin pieces of wood (or glass fiber) is appealing, very appealing.
My existence is rural bohemian by choice, it’s what turns me on, I’m not one that has to live in the limelight, I am more than comfortable enough with my own skin to enjoy my own company yet that being said life is long and becomes lonely and dogs don’t offer any input when you ask them advice, they just sit there with a stupid grin on their face wagging their tails hence they are mans friend but not man’s best friend.
As with almost everyone else that has been in a long term relationship, I do come with 1 condition, in the form of an 11 year old son who stays with his mother. He is of paramount importance in my life. I do not carry emotional baggage, sufficient time has passed that my past is exactly that, I do not believe in comparing old flames to new romances as each person is an individual and should be treated as such, it’s the entire package that makes some one appealing.
Lastly, I am not looking to starting a new family, I am past the stage in life that nappies, bottles and waking at all hours of the morning appeals to me, if you have children of your own, that isn’t an issue but expecting more from me or through adoption is out of the question.
What’s relevant is that I am on this site internet dating, I am looking for a partner and not a quick fling or casual hook up under the pretense of wanting a serious relationship and as such I don't care for women who include 'I prefer the finer things in life' or ‘know how to treat’ in profile introductions, rather just come right out and say that you are looking for someone to bankroll you and your flights in life. I know how to treat a woman and I’m sure that if I don’t know how to treat you, you will let me know as such.
Letting my significant other know, that it is her and her alone, that rocks my world and showing her just how much I appreciate her whether it is by whispering sweet something’s to her or through doing something unexpected for her.
Hearing, not listening, massive difference between the 2, that isn’t to say that I don’t listen as that would be self contradictory to the hearing.
Reaching compromise, I learned the art of agreeing to disagree long ago and being able to find the middle ground.
My hands, I love DIY from changing plugs to ripping a house to a shell and re doing the interior from scratch including the wiring and plumbing (and it works when you flip a switch or turn a tap).
Living in the moment
The ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they DON’T look forward to the trip
And on the opposite note I’M REALLY BAD AT
Putting up with Drunken Idiots/Drug Addicts/High Maintenance People.
That I’m not materialistic
That I appear introverted, I’m not, I’m just getting to know you.
Freedom of speech, choice, expression and movement
Why I bother writing out detailed profiles on internet dating sites when no-one seems to bother reading what is said.
Wishing I was out in the Mountains
Feel free to message me if you are a CHRISTIAN White/Caucasian, Asian and Latino/Hispanic lady only, I'm not a Racist but am Racially inclined when it comes to choosing a partner, just as the age group doesn’t start in the 20's as I have no desire to wait for a girl to mature into a woman.
Almost any woman can turn a man’s head and get him to notice her, the ability to keep a man captivated, have his lasting intentions and desires focused on you is however a different matter all together. A combination of being self assured and aware of your own sexuality with a touch of sensual-ism thrown in for good measure is a good grounding for capturing a man’s attention. However, that is only a fraction of the battle in capturing a man’s heart and beginning of creating a desire to get to know you better. Ample Self confidence without appearing standoff-ish, Style without appearing to have spent the last 6 hours in front of a mirror and protruding an aura of Class will get him moving across the room to introduce himself to you. The ability to hold an intellectual conversation, yet knowing when to cross that fine line and be emotional in your reasoning will spark interest, add wit and humor to the conversation, subtract assumption and gossip and you should by now have him offering to get you a drink. Being attentive to what he says, offering insightful comments and agreeing to disagree with points that you don’t hold mutual views on should be the cincher in him offering you his telephone number before the night is done. And just like women, we also wonder if or when the telephone will ring. Learn the ability to politely let a man down if you are not interested and if you found his company as captivating as he found yours, make a point of letting him know at some point the next morning that you would be interested in seeing him again.