25 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
>loves music and food
>into everyone, technically, but kinda over cis men rn (try me tho)
>devoted to social and political liberation for all
>in particular: disability justice; mad liberation
>enjoys chillin at home in cold weather and basking in the sun in warm. hot weather can suck it.
>loves dance and movement
>sometimes bikes, sometimes drives
>the woodsssss
> shy and thoughtful sometimes, wild and playful at others
>always passionate, always opinionated
>looking for cute dates, and eventually a primary partner
> I’m an INTJ/P; enneagram 4/5; Gemini sun/moon; Libra rising; Leo venus/mars
>very sensitive, plz be kind 💙
What I’m doing with my life
grad school; studying "Anthropology and Social Change" at the California Institute of Integral Studies
I’m really good at
writing, making up theories, cooking tempeh and beets, baking paleo zucchini bread, drinking coffee, drinking tea, stimming, having emotions, being outspoken, collecting scarves, cuddling, and being a fuckin' weirdo.
The first things people usually notice about me
you shall see when you meet me I guess...?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(*fiction*) Good Kings Bad Kings, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Slaughterhouse Five, Norwegian Wood, Harry Potter... (*poetry*) Allen Ginsberg, Gertrude Stein, William Blake... (*social theory*) Foucault, bell hooks, J. Halberstam's "The Queer Art of Failure", Emily Martin's "Bipolar Expeditions"... oh and cookbooks

Harold and Maude, Little Miss Sunshine, Fargo, Lars Von Trier's "Dogville" and "Melancholia", 28 Days Later, Synecdoche New York

I love music... Animal Collective, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, Tallest Man on Earth, Sufjan Stevens, Daughter, Joanna Newsom, Neutral Milk Hotel, Elvis Perkins, Sia, Florence and the Machine, LP, Marina and the Diamonds, Lana Del Rey, Johanna Warren, CocoRosie, Simon and Garfunkel, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Talking Heads, Cat Stevens, Van Morrison, Fleetwood Mac, The Mamas and the Papas, The Beach Boys, Otis Redding, Ben E. King, Bill Withers, Bob Marley, Bright Eyes, Radical Face, Rilo Kiley, Anais Mitchell, Angel Haze, Childish Gambino, M.I.A., Beyoncé, Nikki Minaj

Lost (*a classic*), American Horror Story (seasons 1 and 2), Broad City, Gotham, Twin Peaks, The Twilight Zone, The Path, Portlandia, Breaking Bad, The Returned, Orphan Black, Bob's Burgers, Rick and Morty, Parenthood, Key and Peele, Stranger Things... currently watching Penny Dreadful

Sushi, Indian, Salvadoran, Ethiopian, good pizza (deep dish Zachary's baby!!)

oh and visual art: Van Gogh, Max Ernst, Odilon Redon, William Blake, and photography in general
The six things I could never do without
1. love
2. education
3. nature
4. community
5. good food
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
social justice; people; magic; bodies; food
On a typical Friday night I am
depends on how I feel
You should message me if
something in my profile resonates with you

you're (com)passionate, kind and socially aware (i.e. not racist, misogynist, ableist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic etc.), willing to learn, and have a sense of humor/play

you want to snuggle up hardcore, or take a trip to the woods with me

you're not "looking for a girl who doesn't take herself too seriously." I am not your "manic pixie dreamgirl" trope (look it up if you must). I take myself and the world around me seriously, have intense feelings, and I'm also not a girl.