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My self-summary
Poly, punk, geek and generally interested.

Up front: I'm married to a wonderful woman in a consenting, mutual poly relationship. If that's a no-go, understood. I'm cisgendered and about 95% straight. Don't ask me about the 5%, because you couldn't afford the drinks to get me there.

I'm open to all levels of relationship, including just hanging out. I really like making new friends.

Other than that, I'm a punk rocker who never truly grew up but took a job as a software engineer because beer doesn't pay for itself.

Plus, I'm down with NSPP, yeah you know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Working a job, playing in a band, walking my dog, playing games, going out with friends, seeing other bands, reading books about physics, reading books about bands, reading books about books, playing in my band some more.

..and you know, all the dirty stuff.
I’m really good at
Making people think I'm funnier than I am. This is a lot more subtly difficult than you might think.

Also, I'm really good in bed. I rarely fall out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told I have striking eyes. Not often enough, mind you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Good lord, where do I start.

Books: 'Godel, Escher, Bach', 'White Line Fever', 'Stars In My Pocket Like Grains Of Sand', 'Declare', 'Without Feathers', 'Coney Island Of The Mind', 'Heed The Thunder'

Movies: 'Black Narcissus', 'Yojimbo', 'All That Heaven Allows', 'Black Cat, White Cat', 'Forbidden Zone'

Shows: Buffy, Buffy, Buffy, Buffy, and Buffy. That new Dirk Gently series was pretty sweet.

Music: NoMeansNo, The Hanson Brothers, St. Vincent, Sun Ra, The Ramones, Miles Davis, Howlin' Wolf, it goes on...

I listen to a lot of podcasts too.

Food: I'm going to be safe and say all food. This year I'm keen to learn to make mustard.
Six things I could never do without
I'm going to go air, water, food as my top three. If you've figured out a way around that, I'd be really interested in that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The strangest things.
On a typical Friday night I am
As soon as I have one, I'll let you know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yeesh, I don't know. I'm bad at keeping things private.
You should message me if
You're a good time sally with an easy smirk and the moxie to make it big....

Or you want to, up to you.
The two of us