secretadmirer00
52 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I went through a rough patch with my wife, and now we've decided that we're best friends, and still love each other, but have our own desires so we're in an open relationship now. I own my own business, have a car and I'm financially secure. Just finding myself right now, but open to meeting someone that I can have fun with. If you're into drama or are the selfish or jealous type, please pass me by. I want a relationship that's a two way street. Where we both take the time to talk about our wants and needs and we're both willing to give a little to accommodate the other's needs.

I'm not into drinking, except for the occasional rum and coke. I'm also not into the whole 420 scene and I don't smoke cigarettes. I'd prefer someone who also can have fun without being high or buzzed, it doesn't bother me if it is occasional, but if you can't have fun without it, then we're probably not going to get along for long.

Are you intellectual? That doesn't mean that you have to have a college degree. Just be intelligent enough to speak without relying on the color of your shoes, your nail polish type or when the last time you went to the mall. Brains trump skin deep beauty. I'd rather be with someone who is flawed and doesn't have a problem with it, than someone who believes they are perfect.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm happier than I've ever been. Last year I thought my marriage had ended, but we found that we're actually best friends. Things have made a huge turn for the better and started out in an open relationship, but have since separated since she has found someone she says is more compatible with her "type". Which means the guy is very anal, and a complete neat freak. Sorry, I'm not. I am a down to earth guy with good intentions. I do keep myself clean, brush my teeth, floss, trim my nails, keep my sink clean, etc. But I don't freak out if a spoon or fork is out of place or if the dishes are left for the next day.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Being sarcastic. Horse back riding. Listening. Back Massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music. I like all types of music, The Black Keys, Johnny Cash, Beethoven, Mozart, The Greatful Dead, Beatles, older 80's rock, etc.

TV Jimmy Kimble, Game of Thrones
The six things I could never do without
ipad, iphone, a true friend, my kids, clean underwear and passionate sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Spending the rest of my life being happy as I am today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling watching a movie or spending time with my wife/best friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to lead. Whether it's dancing or sex. I'm a dominant person. Not hardcore 50 shades, but a little rough sex that doesn't actually hurt someone and it can be fun as long as the safe word isn't harder. jk, Just to clarify, I'm not into hardcore S&M or anything really like that. But, I am open to new ideas.
You should message me if
You're in a crappy marriage that you can't leave because you have kids. I understand. Sometimes you just need to talk to someone. I understand that. I felt that way last year and I was very bitter. I never would have imagined that we would end up as friends and realize we're just not attracted to each other physically. Relationships don't always have to be about sex, but protected sex can definitely be fun. If you understand the context of They're, Their, Your, You're, you'll go to the top of my list.
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