sef125ny
44 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I appreciate life challenges, personal growth and new experiences. I'm an introvert so I prefer a low-key environment to loud, crowded places, unless it's live music I love! I've travelled a bit but Ireland is my favorite and I plan to go back when time allows.

I'm a t-shirt and jeans girl who likes to wear pretty dresses when the mood strikes. I practice Pilates and enjoy brisk walking. Currently, I'm working my knees back up to running (so far, so good)! I used to row on crew team and miss the feeling of being part of a team that operates as a single force.

I'm also a binge watcher. I'm into independent films and B flicks, series, though there is always room for a good blockbuster. I prefer alternative music, old jazz, and most anything if it's well done with the exception of club music, and I enjoy seeing live shows. I love the black and white photography of the likes of August Sander and Edward Steichen.

I believe a solid relationship is based on good communication, honesty, trust, kindness, mutual interests, different interests, laughs, and a spiritual and physical chemistry.

I like smart, kind guys who think independently and have an edge to their personality. I'm looking for new friends or to be part of something more serious.

Fine (but important) print:
I'm not looking for casual sex, and please don't contact me if you're under 37.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently a Project Manager at a type foundry in SoHo. I'm planning to move out of NYC for a quieter, but still exciting, city. I have my sights and feelers out in the DC area. I'm dreaming of renovating a home. I need a project for my miter saw!
I’m really good at
I'm good at being dependable and listening without judgement.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. Also, after getting to know me, people generally say I'm not what they first thought.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Tree Grows in Bklyn, Peachpit's HTML2 (it launched my career), And the Ass Saw the Angel, psychology books

Movies: Baby Face (1932), Speedy, Metropolis, Wes Anderson films, In the Mood for Love/2046, Russ Myer films...

Live shows: Nick Cave, Buzzcocks at Irving Plaza about 8 years ago, Alloy Orchestra playing live to Metropolis, Dead Can Dance, A Play Without Words about 4 years ago at BAM

Food: I love mexican food! I also love Italian, middle eastern, Indian, comfort food, my sis-n-law's homemade Thai... I'll eat most things save for tentacles and eyeballs.
The six things I could never do without
Friends. trees. love. comfy shoes. hot tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about big picture stuff. I think about my friends, things going on in the world... what I'm doing and where I'm going with my life... what will I have for dinner...
On a typical Friday night I am
You can find me at a happy hour or dinner. Sometimes I'll be at the gym or curled up watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Uh... nothing on a website.
You should message me if
...you're looking for a friend or a monogamous relationship.
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