65Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I think of myself as intuitive, intelligent, imaginative, optimistic, intense, playful, and funny. I’m passionate and sensual and I consider myself pretty wise about a number of things...
Love being active as much as I love being chill and totally relaxed. I'm pretty balanced in getting out in the world and being successful while still finding time to be introspective.
I'm a very affectionate to hug and cuddle... and always open to the mystery of love and sex.
What I’m doing with my life
Been working as an architect designing residences since college and still loving it… but slowly starting a second career doing mentoring.
I love to dance, do yoga, meditate, massage, work out, go hiking, traveling, cook healthy food and spend time with friends.
My profile name, Sexdancer, (aka MaTandhir) is all about a movement practice I do that combines dance, massage and sex. It can get pretty hot and erotic, yet it's equally creative, great exercise and an awesome meditation.
I’m really good at
Listening and sharing with my heart and body. Time spent making love is one of the sweetest things in life. Most fun in a body!!
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do read, and go to movies, theater and concerts...all in a pretty wide spectrum. Much of my reading lately is on spirituality.... reflecting on the wisdom of some very smart souls. I'm always listening to music and appreciate most of what's out there with a preference for indie efforts. Love Asian food. Not much into TV but do record and watch a few gems,
Six things I could never do without
passionate connected sex
direct communication
dark chocolate
being in nature
the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my work, the nature of reality (no kidding) and sex....
I do a lot of online workshops dealing with conscious evolution and they keep me pondering the quantum nature of our universe and how there is so much more to life than what we can see.
On a typical Friday night I am
there's never a typical Friday night....but a good one would be cuddled up with a sweet sexy man, having an intense, honest connected conversation and exploring ways to pleasure one another....
Not so good one....mindlessly taking way too many OKcupid tests.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love outdoor sex. Your beach or mine?
And....if we meet and we don't want to jump each others bones pretty damn might not be a match. Chemistry does matter whatever OKcupid compatibility percentages we've got going for us.
If we're not both plugged into our bodies....the dance can never be ecstatic. It's an ideal for sure....but it's one I know is possible.
You should message me if
You desire to be deeply and passionately kissed.
You have an open heart and mind and a willingness to make it matter if the chemistry and consciousness are a match.
You're an active, attractive, aware guy who knows that the world is evolving in awesome ways and you're enthusiastically on board for the fun of it.
The two of us