30 Montreal, Canada
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My self-summary
My username on here, it should be noted, goes back to when I first reluctantly joined the site. It was a statement against heteronormative dating models, and I'm too lazy to change it or do anything about it. But to be certain, I am not on OKCupid for cruising - the other tools for that are many.

Read "bisexual" as "queer" and come at me with the gender spectrum.
What I’m doing with my life
Lawyer (of the social justice, not big firm, kind).
Professor (of the part-time, precarious-contracts kind).
Karaoke'er (of the used-to-go-every-week-now-mostly-filled-with-regrets kind)
I’m really good at
Legal interpretation, pushups, highlighting the inherent contradictions of capitalism, dog-whispering and cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sparkling blue eyes.
And teeth that could only be the result of obsessive care and a caring orthodontist in adolescence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: For how smart I am, you'd imagine I read more. I should.

Movies: Weaknesses for late-90's stoner films and the entire Bring It On series.
The six things I could never do without
- karaoke
- lesbians
- lesbians at karaoke
- puppies
- texting instead of phoning
- overly frequent trips to Newfoundland
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This question raises more anxiety than the things I think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping by 10pm.
Saturday I can be alot of fun though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am *not* afraid of love.
You should message me if
- you won't be irritated by the fact that I have an unfortunately long list of food allergies that mean that going out to a restaurant with me is a bit of a painful process, but you feel assured because I'm an excellent and flexible chef.


- T'aurais quelque chose d'interessant à dire. Or a fun adventure to propose. Or you think I'm pretty and you're pretty too.


- You think Bar Tabou sounds like a lovely first date.


- You have sense of self, own-(metaphorical-)shit-owning, and emotional maturity. And a critical analysis of race and class.


- You own a nice dog and don't mind if I pay more attention to the dog than to you on our first date.