I'm on this site looking to make friends and hopefully connect with one "special friend." :) I have no set expectations - I figure I will know when I find someone worth spending time with. If you are a playa, please play with someone else. I am not into games, being one of a ton of girls you're hollering at, etc. If you want to meet a unique, smart, sexy woman, that's me. I would like to eventually be in a loving, committed relationship.
I’m a very devoted mom to two amazing kids and fulfilled in almost every aspect of my life. I am intelligent, goal-oriented, and easy to get along with... in short, I have never met a stranger. I am a great conversationalist. I am a redhead with pretty blue eyes, 5'3" and curvy in all the right places. Everyone always comments on my smile, probably because I always have one. :) I’m a bit thick but carry it well – suffice to say if you’re only into super-athletic girls, pass me by. I can enjoy a night in as much as going out and partying like a rock star!
I'm most interested in a man whose mind fits mine. Someone who has a spark to them and can engage my mind. A great personality is a HUGE plus, though at the same time I prefer to find someone who doesn’t require a bag over their head... :) Call me picky... Lastly, I would like to find a Christian man. The older I get, the more I seek God in my life. If you're a non-believer, we probably aren't a good match. At the same time, I want someone who still knows how to have a good time. It's all about the balance.
If you like what you've read so far, please say hi. A few disclaimers to save us both some time: 1) If your email consists of, “Hi, wanna fuck?” you won’t be getting a response. :) 2) If you get pissed that I won't give you my digits five seconds into talking to me and/or that it takes me more than a day to respond to your email, you're not the one for me. My life is busy, and I WILL make time for those I want to. 3) I am not interested in dating guys under 30 or over 50. I prefer mid to to late 40's. While age IS just a number, and everyone is different, my experience has taught me time and time again that guys that much younger than I am are @ a totally different place in their life than I am. Please don't try to convince me that you're the ONE guy who will be different. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt - and it doesn't fit. I appreciate your interest, but please be respectful. Lastly, please do NOT be married to your job. I'm all about an ambitious man, but please do realize that balance is of utmost importance. The ideal man for me will put family first.
Climbing down off my soapbox now...
physically - Def. my smile and my eyes. I often get comments on my strong legs and upper chestal region.
Movies - Office Space, Grease, Footloose, The Breakfast Club, Shawshank Redemption, When Harry Met Sally, This is 40, etc.
Fave TV shows include Modern Family, HIMYM, Breaking Bad, Parenthood, Jane the Virgin, Royal Pains, Scandal, etc. I also love documentaries.
Music - I really like all kinds of music. I mostly listen to pop/top 40 just because I hear it the most. Love a wide variety... I know I may lose points for this, but my musical interests vary widely from Taylor Swift to Dixie Chicks, Metallica, Elton John to Journey to Alice in Chains, Enya to George Strait... literally a bit of everything. I really like anything that sounds good and has a good beat.
Food - I am a total chocoholic... beyond that, I love chicken, hamburgers, salads, bread, pasta, steak, potatoes... etc. Mexican and Italian are also high on my list.
(Not necessarily in that order. Sometimes chocolate is by far at the top of that list :O)
Bonus points for the following: you drive a truck, you love kids, you are a great cook, you have broad shoulders, you think you have a lot to offer a woman but also want to get a lot back in return.
What have you got to lose? I may just rawk yer world. :)