37 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
What I'm looking for is an intelligent woman to eventually give myself to for a committed monogamous relationship. I've been in relationships that had a little bit of a power exchange aspect aspect, but I always brought most of the kink with me and would love to meet someone who wants to explore or just outright knows what they want.

"Behind every great man, is a great woman" - This phrase has meaning to me on more than one level :)

I'm looking for a fairly content person who knows what they want in their life. I am a strong, tall, attractive man but sometimes i think I am my own undoing because I don't have anyone to live for. I love to cook. I'm an avid cyclist and I love to go rock climbing when I can.

In my ideal relationship, we would talk first on here or instant messenger, but quickly move to the phone so we can investigate chemistry. I want something real and I don't want to waste too much time finding out if we're compatible. Chemistry is so important.

I am respectful and loving, you would probably never guess that I have submissive interests if you didnt know.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I am a confident alpha working in technology, startups, and consulting. I have a very flexible job, and I love to travel. My work requires that I be both creative and intellectual and I flex those muscles daily. I'm also interested in spirituality and love talking philosophy with my friends. (heideggerian existentialism, anyone?)
I’m really good at
Creating the life I want, working for myself, booking plane tickets.
The first things people usually notice about me
handsome and perhaps somewhat unapproachable... I clock in at 6'4" which I think some people find intimidating.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Redefining masculinity in a way that is more contributory to women rather than controlling.
You should message me if
You like the idea of having an attentive, supportive man in your life (not a pushover), or you're just curious about female-led relationships.