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My self-summary
My life is a twisty never-ending hunt for conversations and collaborators and the death of capitalism. Cartoonist. Malaysian Immigrant. Dizzy with enthusiasm. Lulled into states of spine-tingling pleasure by impassioned monologues- it's nice to hear a long, in-person explanation of 3D printing or something, but right-wing talk radio youtube rant will do, in a pinch.

kink-friendly, vocal (read: squeal-y) femmey bossy bottom with switchy tendencies. no stranger to medical-grade silicone.

Yes to trans and genderqueer issues, no to queer transmisognyny. milo yiannopoulos fans seek your intimacies elsewhere.

Can lapse into states of college cisboy theory-spoutage (blah blah blah LACAN!!) if not properly shut down. Kindness and curiosity and radical anti-fascism a plus.

dreams of having a John Waters mustache, being well-read. living in a punk commune raising other people's kids.

Disclosure mode: Right now I have a primary partner I'm quite smitten with. Have been very bad at relationships for sustained periods in the past, addressing that in therapy.

Always on the lookout for cute adventure dates with good communicators and new queer pals o' color.

And I've got a Moominpappa tattoo.
What I’m doing with my life
working two freelance jobs, saving up enough money to go couch surfing again, trying to read enough books to keep my perversity from falling below standard, and running running running
I’m really good at
Playing, Listening, Reading to people, Drawing, Listening, Kissing, Remembering the words to Kate Bush's 'Wuthering Heights'
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses and lips. My flailing limbs. My sense of tumor. I MEAN....I mean my sense of humor. Also I'm pretty polite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Maggie Nelson
Octavia Butler
Mariko Tamaki
Ta-Nehisi Coates
Hilton Als
Dorothy Allison
William Gibson
J.G. Ballard
"The Unsayable" by Annie G. Rogers
Dan Clowes
"Wetlands" by Charlotte Roche
Iain Banks
Anne Carson (but especially Beauty of the Husband and an Autobiography of Red)
Patrick McGoohan's The Prisoner (I am not a number!)
The Wire
Drag Race
Steven Universe
Mountain Goats
Neko Case
Johnny Cash
Janelle Monae
Screaming Jay Hawkins
Talking Heads
Klaus Nomi
Loretta Lynn
Six things I could never do without
pencils, androgynous creatures, spicy food, devil-may-care grins, Large bodies of water, and therapy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
stories, who people are when no-one's looking, strap-ons, freckles and why I don't have them, and how to deconstruct language and culture humanely.
On a typical Friday night I am
sitting in a friend's apartment watching a movie, having a nice dinner out, reading indoors, wandering by the river, kicking feverishly into the air and yelling for my mother.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a human, and a combined product of all my insecurities and skills. I'm the one who set the fire.
You should message me if
You want to.
The two of us