I think the struggle of life is (mostly) fun, I'm generally in a good mood, and I like to do stuff. I think it's impossible to be bored in this town and usually there are too many options to choose from. Help me decide!
I'm very feminine (have too many shoes, gravitate towards sparkly things, have lots of pillows for some reason, have gone hiking in heels, etc.....) but am not afraid of confrontation when necessary, will squish bugs, maintain a car and have replaced a toilet myself after repairing the floor where the plumber didn't understand why joists are necessary.
And if you can't do that type of stuff I'll do it for you while you do other things I suck at. (and yes I'm educated enough to I'm not supposed to end a sentence with a preposition but also have enough life experience to know that being fun and kind is more important than being right about useless rules in the context of relationships) In other words I fend for myself, but I'm here because ultimately I think it's probably better to be on a team than alone. Probably.
I've not been married and I don't have kids - so I have done lots of other fun things with my time such as traveling to dance all over the place, study design, build things and lots of swimming.
mental/personality wise: I'm a balance of left/right brain, scientific/artistic skills.
jazz jazz jazz and blues! takes me to my happy place. and instrumental middle eastern music makes me happy too ( belly dancer for life yo) I like computery music as well - makes me feel young and modern, but I think a good musician and acoustic imperfection will always win my heart. I like wandering around sxsw and letting the fates decide. I'm fascinated how live performance always enhances things, It is important to me to see live performances regularly. I probably average once a week but aim for more. so lucky to be where I am where that isn't hard to do. I usually seem to perceive melody and not lyrics. love Violin/Fiddle noises. it's torture if I hear something great but can't wiggle around to it, I prefer a bar show to a concert hall.
I love watching tv!
my phone is amazing isn't it?
those little waves can bring me pictures of you.
The Economist yay! ( read in the bath of course) those English peeps know what they're doing, best bath magazine ever.
I actually went to space camp. yes - the real one.
I want to explain what's right below - I want long term dating with lots of sex and other forms of connection with only one person. what a nice surprise that my body seems to get better and better at enjoying things as I age. I really appreciate a good man.
And you wouldn't EVER CONSIDER SMOKING and torturing me with me with disgustingness that wants to kill both of us and your dog. You kiss with that thing sir!!!! This is my one deal breaker.
and possibly kiddoes have started to be less terrifying to you, but you don't have one already and we can make all the mistakes for the first time together. so there I said it. Even though that's way too much pressure to put on an early relationship and apparently I'm an old crone and should have just had wild unprotected teenage sex or something instead of working on a career, travel, financial stability, general interestingness and doing the splits. I also realize you are probably a unicorn.