shlerbert
39 Bryn Mawr, United States
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My self-summary
My life has taken a lot of turns, but in the end wound up in a pretty stable place. I have a wife that loves me, two kids, a great career. After a life of secretly lusting after old friends and such, I decided that it was time to reckon with my sexuality and just come out as bi already. Luckily my wife (to whom I expressed much of this when we were just starting off) is totally ok with opening up the relationship a bit. So, looking to meet guys for friendship, dating, sex. The works. No expectations, just looking for love and adventure maybe 10 or 20 years late.​
What I’m doing with my life
I started out as an art student, and somehow wound up a code monkey.
I’m really good at
I can draw extremely well, and I can solve systems of differential equations. I'm also great with kids. My daughters cant get enough of me.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shirt is inside out, but no one tells me and I walk around like that all day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Recent fiction I've read includes: Pillars of the Earth, Wicked, In Cold Blood, The Song of Ice and Fire (and I really dislike the HBO series), World War Z, Cosmic Comic by Italo Calvino. No one wants to hear about the technical books on programming I read.

Movies: Yikes, its a hard question because it is so big. I'll just say that I am a big Miyazaki fan, I like unexpected independent films, the Cohen Brothers, Hitcock, Charlie Chaplin and Lord Help me Quentin Tarantino,

Music: With the advent of MP3's, like everyone else out there I listen to music played in random order on an electronic device. half the stuff on there I have never even listened to.

And because we are living in the future, will also add that I do not watch TV, and am a big podcast listener. I regularly or at least sporadically listen to: Welcome To Night Vale, The Accidental Creative, Savage Love, Radiolab, This American life, Robots, Brain Science, Brain Stuff, Science Friday, Planet money, TWIT, BBC documentaries, Left Right and Center, Rachel Maddow, Its All Politics (RIP), Intelligence^2 debates, The Economist, Hacker Public Radio, Wait Wait Dont Tell Me, and Radio Times among others.
The six things I could never do without
Hydrogen Oxygen Carbon Nitrogen Calcium Sodium

Helium though, Meh. Stopped being funny long ago.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Most of my time spent thinking is actually just staring blankly at the floor after I wake up.
On a typical Friday night I am
90% of the time trying to pull the kids off the ceiling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am divorced and remarried. I am out as bi, in an open relationship, am a dad during the week, dashing rogue on the weekend looking for love and adventure.
You should message me if
You are drop dead funny as hell.

No pressure.
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