I value friendship, family, honesty, respect, reflection, personal evolution, philosophy, rights, sexual freedom and fluidity, art, music, freedom of expression.
I came to Australia to get my masters at University of Sydney in Human Rights policy-there is plenty of abuses here in downunder (see: Aboriginal land rights and "boat people") I am interested in social justice, law, psychological impacts of unlawful detention etc. I will be moving home to San Francisco after three years of working in Australia and gaining a permanent residency visa, which allows me to return to OZ whenever I want because having two summers in a year ain't too shabby :-) For now, I want to plant roots again and work by my family and friends in SF further pursuing my interests in law, social justice & human rights.
Books- we need to talk in person about this: I majored in English Literature and Philosophy at Wake Forest University in NC so the classic novels are my jam. My bookshelf has so many different genres that I am not quite sure what my bookshelf says about me. I like feminist black women authors and political writers. I love Alice Walker. I once took a "World Poetry" class with the late and great, Maya Angelou*much respect*
Shows: Colbert=Rad. Also, John Stewart is sexy-I am a sapiosexual who digs the smart, grey-fox types. Also like The Wire and 6ft under. I am not a huge TV girl in general but I like good shows without commercials. Still haven't seen "Breaking Bad" but its on the list.
-what music projects I want to do next
-the ocean, sea life and how we are destroying our oceans :-(
-what is truly important to me in this short life and what I need to prioritize to make the best of my time and resources
-how relative 'time' really is
-social justice, social movements and social transformation, racism, homophobia and equality
-spirituality and meditation and personal growth
-the human brain
So, Kinsey introduced the sexuality spectrum (im a 3). We are all on that spectrum and we all have our own sensualities, tastes and tendencies. I have dated both men and women in the past and have experienced the differences between them in many ways to form a unique perspective on gender and love.
I am balanced in my male/female energies and desire to meet other people who have explored these things as well. I want someone open, knows what they want, does not mess around, is deep and committed but open for adventure and personal freedom. I am still looking for my life partner and making friends along the way. I want to meet a man who is my opposite but compliments me too. I want to meet someone who expands my world exponentially, would like a family of their own and shares in these same values.
I've had many relationships in my life but am now looking for a longer-term, deep connection with a grounded and loving man, who is kind of a badass but doesn't know it-silent confidence and humility is sexy. I am still looking for my male partner in part-time crime. I am in an open domestic partnership/marriage to an Australian woman.
Please do not message me for threesomes or endless poly relationship options because I am not interested. I am seeking a relationship with a man, preferably intelligent, artistic, athletic, kind and thoughtful-if you are showing your abs in your photos then you probably are not for me. I like a guy who is confident enough not to boast or to brag. I hope you have an active inner and spiritual life. If you are of African-American descent then I will probably find you much sexier than most white guys. I have gone black and I just find it really hard to go back :-)
***You have to be cool with my other relationship with my wife.
**Also, if you want to collaborate on music, I love most genres so hit me up if you like any of this: https://soundcloud.com/dmt7