People usually think I'm smart. I'd like to think of myself as a clumsy big child who likes to argue.
I feel quite at home in both China and the US. I've also lived in Hong Kong and Europe.
I like exploring cute restaurants, coffee shops, bookstores, theaters, museums, interesting people, my potentials and limits... I get mad when people go to karaoke without me.
I basically watch movies for a living.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
At the moment, I'm only interested in meeting girls (preferably also Asian) for casual dating or long-term relationships.
I am kinky. I identify mostly as a submissive but I'd also like to explore my dominant side. I'm in a very committed relationship with a man whom I call "Daddy." If you become my girlfriend, I hope you are open to the three of us being together or at least accept him as a large part of my life. I can be as vanilla or kinky as you feel comfortable with.
Directors: Agnes Varda, Jean-luc Godard, Ingmar Bergman, Rainer Fassbinder, 孙瑜 (Sun Yu), 贾樟柯 (Jia Zhangke)
Movies: Leon: The Professional, The Shawshank Redemption, Forrest Gump, Die Hard 3, When Harry met Sally, Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, Brokeback Mountain, Secretary, 你那边几点? (What Time is it There?), 春风沉醉的晚上(Spring Fever), Chinese leftist films from the 1930s
Shows: Friends, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones
Music: Leonard Cohen, Adele, Lana del Rey, Heart, Lady Gaga
Food: brunch, eggs, avocado, tofu, Kobe beef, 小笼包, 煎饼
- you want to explore the Bay Area and yourself
- you are curious about BDSM