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My self-summary
I'm looking for a mutually supportive, permanent, monogamous romantic relationship that will last a lifetime.

I'm a tall, thin, kind, cuddly geeky Sapiophile with a small child.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a single dad to the most wonderful ten year old in world.

I'm starting another little company. A couple of mine were moderately successful in the past.

Studying NVC.

Starting a project to help Atheist and religious folks respect each other more by making the shared value of compassion / kindness more salient.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and am a good listener.
Six things I could never do without
A kind thought.

Small integers.

A chance to be of service to others.

A plan, plot or scheme.

Good Friends.

An internet connection.

My sonic screwdriver (and I've misplaced it !! )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people think about things (including Metacognition and the plasticity of Intelligence, and the neuropsychology of processing "near misses").

My son.

What part of the Bay Area, I should be living in. Mountain View, and San Francisco are the top candidates at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Shooting baskets with my son and playing kickstarter created board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Despite my thinking of myself as TV-Free by Choice, I have been known to watch Hulu. This has included


The Finder,

Death Note,


Kyle XY,

Battlestar Galatica,

Dr. Who,


Numb3rs, and most recently


maybe some others; but that is close to an exhaustive list for the past five years excluding television for small children.

Fortunately, I purify myself from exposure to TV by eating extra Chocolate; especially Dark Chocolate.

That's my confession.

and maybe others;
You should message me if
(1) You have a small child on weekends, or

(2) You love science fiction, or

(3) Enumerated lists, or

(4) You love cuddling while watching science fiction and planning weekend activities with small children, or

(5) You have an interest in NVC (NonViolent Communication); especially if you'd like another empathy buddy, or

(6) You know something about Radical Honesty -- I have a vague thought of how one might combine it with NVC to create Gentle Honesty and I have no idea how practical it might be, or

(7) You're interested in sharing home cooked weeknight meals, or

(8) You sing Badly, but with Great Enthusiasm, or

(9) Kindness / Compassion is your current religion (help with the conversion process available upon request; Atheism my the preferred), or

(10) You're interested in how to get people to get along better with one another (especially Atheists and religious folks), or

(11) You're interested in usability issues in HTML5 applications, or

(12) You secretly giggle whenever anyone asks if you like the taste of beer, or

(13) You have thoughts on or an interest improving the resiliency of people in general and small children in particular, or

(14) You proud to be a Sapiophile especially if you like that better than being called a Sapiosexual,

(15) You're into hugs in a big way, or most importantly,

(16) You want to be cherished forever and ever and ever.
The two of us